I knew getting into the relationship that he had some issues. Mostly due to his father dying when he was 15. I decided recently to take a break from the relationship. He seems fine with that at times and then at other times he starts screaming and yelling like a lunatic. Says really mean stuff, swears to me. Then calls back and says he's sorry. He loves me so much and still loves me that it hurts to think I could date any one else. I'm not dating anyone just trying to hang out with new people. He even has his mother yelling at me recently due to a situation he thought happened. Then he starts all over again. Telling me he's going out with his buddies and maybe he's gonna go out with some girl tonight. I know he's just trying to get me mad. I of course play it cool, I don't get angry. Of course, if he starts with all the yelling etc. I give it back. Could this personality trait be signs of something deeper?
If he's really behaving this way, it's a big, huge, gigantic King Kong sized warning about him. It doesn't matter what trauma he's had in his life; nothing excuses this kind of behavior!
Tell him it's over, then run away, as fast as you can! Do not talk to him in person, on the phone, or on the internet.
If you tolerate this behavior, even as a "friend," he will do it again and again and again.
Yes. And he is hurt and needs anger management. Do you really want to be with a guy who gets his momma to yell at you? No, I would just end it before it gets out of control. He should seek counseling. You are making a good choice. Yelling and anger usually turns into something more. Like hitting. You are a smart girl.
Girl leave ok my ex was angry and was highly abusive so ditch him now and your not in love with him your hooked on old memories and lust I'm sure he has his cute romantic times (they all do) but he will not always be like that and you don't need to put up with his crap there are a million fish in the sea and guys who are truly sincere and kind so find one of them don't play his game anymore not only for his sake but for your own safety because anger grows into serious trouble don't let him give you all these self pity stories about why he acts this way so that you will stay just get up and go find yourself a great guy ok I hope you do this all and be safe good luck
Ditto what the other two ladies have said. I married one of these types of guys. It only gets worse. MUCH worse. Thank the Lord I'm out of that relationship, but he keeps cropping up. It's very scary. My marriage counselor even advised me to stay away from him. This was before he became stalkerish.
Trust us. We know. I wish I'd realized I was rationalizing my ex's behavior BEFORE we married and I wasted 13 years of my life to him and his nonsense.
Been there done that!!! I had a boyfriend that was like that and trust me it isn't pretty it only gets worse..... drop the dude now!.... I held on to my ex because there wasn't anyone else there for him and he got so addicted that he started stalking me finding out where I was and who I was with and showing up at my house when he knew there wasn't anyone else there but me.... I had to call the cops out several times to get him to just leave me alone! And it probably could be signs of something deeper but its not your problem! you can be there as a friend if you want to be but putting yourself in a spot to get disrespected and cursed at isn't somewhere you wanna be!
Screaming, yelling, and swearing at someone isn't just a display of anger, that's abusive and highly disrespectful. Also, abusive men often apologize and sweet talk their way out of a bad situation. Then they do the same thing again. It's tragic and sad that his father died, but he can't be using that as an excuse to treat people like that.
The fact that he had his MOM yelling at you is just psycho. The whole family sounds dysfunctional and crazy. He has no respect for you and treats you like crap. Don't even waste your time on this loser. He needs therapy bad.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
On a first date we go and grab a coffee in a shop and talk about stuff we like, and then based upon mutual interests plan an outing then and there. Clothing should be normal, plain enough for every day to set a standard of how things are. Plus, whatever you go out and do, you should be willing to do it in those clothes, so suede isn't the best if you say you're going to the zoo.
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She'll know what I like, what I'm like, and get an idea of how well I get her.
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