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Shlei3 (Age:25 to 29)     When: 9 months ago
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Because not everyone will make it on Friday I am posting this up for everyone for the weekend instead of just Friday! No Flaming only supporting or agreeing.

Confession: I was very caustic to a girl I know that thinks she's a close friend of mine. To be honest, I couldn't wait for an excuse to make it clear I was not fond of her even more than I normally do. She never seem to get the message that I did not like her. Plus! I hate people who lie so they can sponge off tax payers and the government. I took some pleasure in ripping her a new butt hole. I know it's mean but seriously people, don't be lazy and make me pay for crap you should be working for.


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WeaponZero      When: 9 months ago
a co-worker of mine has been spending the entire week trying to get me in trouble for stuff I didn't do, and now I got to laugh as it all backfired in her face and she's in deep trouble with the boss now. I feel good and I take pleasure in knowing this.
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Question Asker Word! - 9 months ago

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That-Guy      When: 8 months ago
It pains me that my friends are graduating and I'm going to be graduating late.

Feels like I suck.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
Previously: "I'm going to confess my feelings to the girl I've liked for years soon. I don't know how I'm going to take it if she rejects me."

She didn't reject me. We are together now and I couldn't be happier.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I seriously want to get some soon. lol
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Littletad LOL - 9 months ago
twilightfan123 Hahaha lol. I think I know who this is? But I'm not gonna say. - 9 months ago

famousde
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famousde      When: 9 months ago
So flame free means free to flame? I assume so - since you flamed on your post.

Yea, I hate those that sponge off others too. Even more, I hate all of the liberal Democrat politicians that promote such behavior by legislating the redistribution of weath and opportunity. That same democratic racist crooks that have forced affirmative action upon the US for the past 40 years - - 40 years of Americans, by mandate, being forced to not allow the best of our people to any given jo; but rather, in every job all the way up to the most important and critical positions, across the board, America has been forced to place people based on racism and sexism. despicable.
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Question Asker Flame free means you can post whatever you want to confess and be free of people criticisizing you. Think of it as going to confession on sundays. The priest doesn't chide you but may give you advice and absolution. The point is to just confess what you want. - 9 months ago
Camilus Wow, did those words actually come from a Californian? I'm shocked, lol - 9 months ago

Littletad
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Littletad      When: 9 months ago
I've recently learned that ex's and your past can haunt you for the rest of your life. But what's also reassuring is that there is almost always someone out there willing to take a chance with you anyway, regardless of your past. That's called hope. So I've learned that there is no such thing as a finite failure.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I'm a scared brave little boy lost in a scarred, beaten man's body.
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GLENNBOB2
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GLENNBOB2      When: 9 months ago
i don't get the question still.
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Littletad Confessions without view or fear of stigma. It's better to post anonymous if you don't want people knowing something on here. - 9 months ago
Answerer OH... well I broke up with my girlfriend and didn't feel bad, she cryed for a week. - 9 months ago

Camilus
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Camilus      When: 9 months ago
Confession #1: I rapidly lost confidence that the Magic will beat the Lakers after last night's game.

Confession #2: I know that Peter Schiff was very accurate about how the economy would turn out when he predicted a recession after the housing bubble burst (even though other economists and broker/dealers said it wouldn't be that bad), and with his new predictions about hyperinflation, including other signs that I see, I am worried that he might be right again.

Confession #3: I also hate people that leech off of welfare, but I'm very upfront about it and feel no remorse for feeling that way. I also hate politicians that use taxpayer's money to fund those programs so they can basically buy votes from certain ethnic peoples that take much more of the welfare pie than they put in, namely illegal immigrants from Mexico/Central America.

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gravygirl This isn't a flame, just a factual thing. Illegal immigrants do not get welfare. They aren't eligible for it. - 9 months ago
Answerer Gravygirl, read and heed (http://www.cis.org/articles/2004/fiscalexec.html) - 9 months ago

regular-guy
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regular-guy      When: 9 months ago
It bugs me when people know something is wrong but they do it anyway just because they want to, it feels good, or whatever. It bugs me even worse when they know it is wrong but then try to rationalize it and spin it as if it is right. And it bugs me even worse when their selfish actions are detrimental to other people whom they hold in so little esteem, or are so self-absorbed, that they relegate the consequences of their actions to unimportant status.
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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 9 months ago
My friend wants to sleep with this girl, but I'm going to sleep with her instead because she's horny, I'm horny, and he's lazy.
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Confused614 Wohoo nice!!! - 9 months ago
That-Guy Follow up update? - 8 months ago
Answerer We're having a quiet little thing.

P.S.: Opinion is evenly divided. Interesting.
- 8 months ago

Confused614
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Confused614      When: 9 months ago
Hmm
Well the past 2 months I haven't really done anything.. I was laid of in late april and have collected unemployment since then... I have applied to dozens of jobs and have not even gotten a call back...I hate not working and want another job already...
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I just found out my school account was blocked for missing documents not being extremely past due... Now I'm a week behind and going to have to catch up besides the fact its summer I rather not be doing school work!
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obligations      When: 8 months ago
My weekends aren't the same ever since I did what I thought was right :(
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ILoveCefalu
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ILoveCefalu      When: 9 months ago
Well, I may or may not be developing a crush on one of my friends. And I don't think his Dad likes me all that much. And I realized that if I did enter a relationship with him, that I would be the bad girlfriend. In my attempt to stay away from jerks and go after the nice guy, I realized that I would be the bitch that scarred him emotionally at the end of summer.

Oh, and the fiancé that my mom has planned for me, the last time I saw him was last fall. Granted, we were trapped together for the entire day, but we're not buddy-buddy. We could have been, but then I found him attractive and ruined that. Not that I'll see him again until next football season, maybe. And even then, it's unlikely that I'll be in contact with my mom at that point. That and the fact that I can't talk around him in front of my mother because that woman mortifies me like there's no tomorrow.

I'm 18 now, and I get to make choices that I didn't have a say in before. I've not talked to my mother for months now, and I think my Dad can kind of sense that he's in line, if not necessarily next, though the jury's still out on if I could ever cease contact with him. This is probably normal teenage rebellion.

I came to the conclusion that my older sister, the only sibling I'm actually related to, is not someone who I would associate with if not for the blood ties. Not that love or affection is a bargaining chip, but I want something back in return besides resentment and dulled contempt.

Visual perception is a two-way street, and I think that sometimes it's easier to just have people assume that my appearance is an adequate appraisal of my worth. I can get far on just my looks alone, and it's a hassle to have to worry if my streets are paved because of something I have next to no say in.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
1) the guy I have been seeing told me recently that he has been in jail before. I can't date someone like that so I ended things.

2) I really feel now that I will never find anyone worthwhile. I have not had a relationship in 4 years (except for the little dating thing with the guy in confession 1), and at this rate I don't think I will ever find someone.

3) I am pretty sure I attract losers. I was raised in the upper-middle class, am college educated, and have a full-time stable job. Yet, I can't find a NORMAL man to be with. I get depressed over this.

4) They tell you that life gets better. It doesn't. Life can suck for what seems like all time.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I really like him, and am gonna get the guts up to call him no matter what it takes. Tonight is the night! If he won't make a move, I guess I'm going to have to...I'm not desperate or anything, I'm just tired of sitting back and pretending guys are the only ones who have the ability to initiate a relationship...I'm so scared/nervous though...wish me luck!
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that_one_girl Good Luck! I hope everything turns out well! - 9 months ago
mormongirlmichl How'd it go?
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Answerer So much for how empowered I felt when I wrote that...I sat by the phone for an hour and then chickened out...I texted him telling him I had wanted to call him, but I was afraid he was busy, he texted back an hour later and it turns out he WAS busy and he wouldn't have answered anyway....I texted back once more and did not hear again from him until this morning saying that he was sorry it takes him years to text back and that he didn't know being in a summer class would be so much work - 9 months ago

twilightfan123
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twilightfan123      When: 9 months ago
I don't try hard in school.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I love my bf, like a guy who lives a million miles away... and still like my ex... and I still don't know what to do..
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aly-marie
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aly-marie      When: 9 months ago
I've knowingly stayed with people that were nothing but trouble simply because they made me happy, and it was such a rare feeling for me that I wasn't willing to give it up. Now I'm finally with someone who would be great for me and would never hurt me, but I'm not sure I can be committed. I love when he says he loves me and I can see that he means it, but it hurts when I can't say it back because I don't want to lie to him.
I'm not willing to be committed to anyone right now because I've always held myself to such strict standards, and I'm sick of it, so I just want to do what makes me happy without having to think about anyone else.
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Simple-Simonette
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Simple-Simonette      When: 9 months ago
I am a lot more like my mother than I would care to admit.
If she was such a terrible mom, what does that make me?
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
Even after it being a load of months where I haven't seen him I still like this guy from college... I really don't know why since I haven't seen him in a while and even then he has made it clear he doesn't want to talk to me. When I plucked up the courage online to talk to him he ignored me pretty much. He for some reason is still talking to a friend of mine which is making me uber jealous. It's weird though 'cause I don't really know much about him either whenever I see his picture or hear his name my heart melts - and his name is really kinda common.

I know he has a girlfriend (not my friend a different gal) but surely he could have at least spoken too me and given me a chance to be a friend at least - how can he be so judgemental. I think the fact that he is ignoring me just makes me want to get to know him even more... is that sad?
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
i used to be a hard core alcoholic and drug user and I find myself getting more and more back into that life style due to loneliness, I find myself drinking every night and getting back into pot smoking because I'm depressed but truthfully I think its just making it worse because I feel like sh*t afterward. I am also afraid to start going to NA or AA again, which I know will help, only because then my family will know I have an issue again
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sexycrystal54313
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sexycrystal54313      When: 9 months ago
i am really looking forward to starting school, but am also very afraid, and I'm not sure its worth the stress that its putting on me financially, but I'm determined to do it anyways because I don't want to end up a failure in life like my parents were.
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babezilla      When: 9 months ago
I drank with some friends, even though I didn't want to, on a school night. : /
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I'm going to visit my boyfriend whom I adore so soo much. He's in the navy and it totally sucks sometimes. After I visit him he'll be gone for a week then back for a little. He is being stationed back in cali which is on the other side of the country, I'm so worried not seeing each other will ruin what we have :( When I see him I want to talk to him about this, like if he wants to continue what we have or quit now... At one point he'll be out to sea for 6 months, I don't know how I'll be able to deal with this...anyone else dealt with something similar?
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sassysenorita
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sassysenorita      When: 9 months ago
It makes me so angry when people tell me not to do something to them and then turn around and do it to me.

I hate it when my mom says do as I say and not as I do. I have a mind of my own mom and I'm old enough to make my own mistakes!

I want to learn how to talk about my feelings in a logical manner. I want to be respected even though I was born an emotional person.

Sometimes my friends and loved ones stress me out; but when they start talking about their problems I'm too damn nice to tell them what they're doing to me. I gotta stop that.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
My boyfriend of one month is cheating on me. He thinks I don't know, but I do. He has even attempted to have cyber sex with one of my close friends. The odd thing is that I'm not mad at him for cheatin. I'm mad at him for lying to me about it. I have also recently started to hate being around my friends. I just feel inadequate compared to them.
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firefighter77 I have two things to say
One it sounds like you have a level head for being mad about the lies
Two you can't be putting your self down about what has happened or about your person
that will just make you feel worse and you just keep thing about what you did wrong.
- 9 months ago

july-goober
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july-goober      When: 9 months ago
I don't know how to physically talk about my emotions face to face with someone. I couldn't even tell my boyfriend that he hurt me (emotionally not physically). It tears me up and makes it really hard for me to control my emotions. I don't know if I will ever get over the mental block that I have that is keeping me from being able to express my emotions and really be me.
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hawthorn21      When: 9 months ago
I'm a little resentful of one of my best friends right now. We just went to get her tattoo. It was supposed to be both of us together, but I dropped out of it due to my indecision and financial reasons. I found the place, I programmed the gps, I did all the leg work because she for some reason can't program a gps, even though it's hers and I've never done it before, and she would have been happy with just any old place. I chose that place for the right reasons, and it was everything I hoped it would be, but I guess it wasn't the right time. I tell everyone it's that I don't know what I want and don't want regrets that kept me from going through with it, but honestly it's that I'm not happy with my body right now..

I've been a bitch this week. I am impatient and not always great at concealing my annoyance when it comes to misunderstandings. I have a difficult time not expecting people to understand me right away and not getting frustrated with them when they don't. I was kind of rude to a couple people this week who tried to pawn their incompetency off on me, as they should've gotten what I meant from what I said (hate that), and they were making me late. I should've contained my frustration and let them pretend it was my fault, rather than make it obvious I thought they were idiots. It really wasn't that big a deal. I just have a hard time being nice in those situations.

I don't really care if I stay in touch with my friends after graduation. Whatever happens, happens.

Writing all that makes me feel like such an asshole, but it was refreshing at the same time. I like these confessionals. I'd never admit most of what I say to anyone.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I have no idea what I'm doing with my life.
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Cool-Relax I don't know what I'm doing with mine either. - 9 months ago

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marley86      When: 9 months ago
I can't stand cowokers that are constantly sucking up to you, just so they can sweet talk you into doing their work. I always run into people like this at serving jobs, and I hate it! They always end up leaving earlier, because they never do their own sidework. I was sweeping my tables, and a guy I work with asks me if I will go ahead and sweep one of his tables. Sure, I don't mind helping a coworker, but not if it is because they are lazy. He is always trying to get me to do his freakin sidework! When he asked me do it I said, "no, you can sweep your own table, your a big boy" the expression on his face was priceless
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xxangel1990xx
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xxangel1990xx      When: 9 months ago
Confession: I'm trying to get someone who already has a gf. And I won't stop until he splits up with her for me. Thing is, I know his girlfriend really loves him and would hurt bad if he finished with her.
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Littletad Valentin... do you not understand the concept of "flame free" ? - 9 months ago
St-Dank-Tanks-LG Oh Angel... you always tell me that cheating is bad, take your own advice (I gave you an uppy ne ways lol) - 9 months ago
bunny420 Uppy. :P

Btw if she breaks them up Dank, it isn't cheating. lol - 9 months ago
Answerer Why, what did Valentin say? Thankyew dank :) and cheating IS bad! and thankyew bunny :) - 8 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
I need another job and everywhere I go I get doors slammed in my face. I am an incredibly hard worker and I am so sick of seeing lazy, stupid people make money in jobs that I could do a thousand times better...not to mention the fact that I would actually value the job. I just want to slam a couple doors in the faces of people who do not give two hoots about the job they are previledged to have.
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Confused614 I'm in the exact same situation right now - 9 months ago
 
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