I have been married for about 3 years ,... And my sister in law has her Husbands Cousin living with them and now every time my husband gets off work he always has to go over there to see his sister and he talks about that girl that is living with his sister ... He talks about her a lot and I just don't know if I am just being jealous or if he is doing stuff behind my back ...I do want to point out that last year around this time he was taking to another chick and that chick last year lied about her age and ( he never did anything with her but the tough is still out there ) any way she said that she was 23 and had a little boy ... And I found out about it and I looked her up on myspace and she was not 23 she was only 14 and even then you can't have a myspace at that age you have to be 16 , but any way now he is doing this and I don't know what to do he said that he is not doing any thing and that he said that don't want to loose me but I just feel like something so going on ( he had lied to me before ) is it bad that I don't trust him like I use to ... We started dating when I was 12 and he was 13 and now we have been together for 11years ... Do you thank I shouldn't be worrying about this
Well congrats on dating him since you were 12..thats commitment! You have a right to worry, he's lied before, and that doesn't mean he can't lie again. It does seem a bit fishy that he's always over there, but maybe you should try to spend more time with him. After work, go out to the movies, or out to dinner, just spend time with him. If he starts to turn you down alot, just to go over there, then you might have a problem. But maybe he just wants some attention, and you aren't giving him enough, idk. Ur not in the wrong her, but he could rele be doing nothing. Good luck.
With you two being together for so long he may feel like he never got a chance to see what all was going on out there with other girls, guys like this you need to watch out for it is easy for them to lie when you have been with them for so long if you feel like your realationship with your sister in law is good then ask her what all is going on if not then you may never know, however if he does love you, you should be able to express that it bothers you and don't like him doing it why can't his sister come to your house and visit him there why does he have to go there. these are valid questions and reasons if he can't give you a good answer to them then somthing is probally going on.
Hey thanks I talked to him and despite him loosing his job he stays home more and we sat down and talked with each other and he said sorry for the way he has been acting and he said that he will work on being more opened to talk ,,, now he just needs to get his system cleaned so he can find a better job ... he said that he wants to stop smoking (m J ) and I will see if he keeps his word .... thanks bunches - 4 months ago
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I wouldn't hold my breath any one can quit smoking that stuff at any time I used to and just decided to stop one day and I did no problems no regrets if someone really wants to they can so be mindfull of that - 4 months ago
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Hey thanks again and well he said that he would quit but he is still smoking it and I gave up on him quiting I will try to he work with him and I just wish he would get a job and help out with the bills .. - 2 months ago
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