I've been dating this guy for about 3 months that I met on an online dating site. We hit it off really well and get along really great, you know the story. Yes we are intimate and lately had been spending more and more time together. He talks about the future, said we are meant to be together. He's constantly sending me romantic texts and telling me how great I am. He calls me his girlfriend although I have yet to meet his friends or family. Anyway, I am crazy about him and have been trying to just follow his lead and go with the flow. He said when he is not with me he thinks about me every minute and "longs" for me. He even asked me to call and text him more than I had been, so I stepped it up a notch, but still basically following his lead with how much time he wanted to spend together. 9 times out of 10 he initiated us getting together. So my question is why, 3 days after he left me a voice mail saying I was the best girlfriend a guy could ever ask for and that he was really really happy would he call me to tell me I have been smothering him lately and then not call me for a 4 days. I still haven't talked to him but he did send me a text saying "we need to talk". Then he sent me one apologizing for saying I was smothering him. What is going on. Is it over?
It seems like he isn't sure what he wants. He really may sometimes feel like he wants you more and then the next day feel your smothering him. That's emotional baggage. It seems he has a few problems he needs to work on before he can start a real relationship. Possible Trust issues?
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 9 months ago
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