I totally fell for this girl. We have been dating for awhile and I just told her that I loved her. She said it back, but the lingering fact of the matter is I think she and her ex are still in love. They still spend a lot of time together, I don't want seem jealous and sometimes I wonder if I can really trust her. Do you think she will ever really be mine?
Girls are complicated. she may always love him. you can never tell, she more than likely won't let you know. if she is spending time with him and they seem more like a couple than yall seem, you need to say something, let her know your jealous. that might be what she is waiting on. you also said you don't know if you trust her. this may sound stupid, but you really do need trust to make any kind of relationship work.