One of my close girl friends introduced me to this guy. We eventually started dating. He was so sweet and considerate to everyone, not only me. That was one thing I admired about him. He also is a bit of a nerd. haha. I was one of the few girls he had ever become close to. My girl friend later told me about how she and my boyfriend had kind of had a thing a few months before. He had had a crush on her throughout high school while she had been dating someone else. When she broke up with him, my boyfriend had been waiting. But when she broke his heart a week later, he seemed ok. I didn't realize that until later. So, it was hard for the 4 months we dated because he and my friend constantly flirted (especially as our relationship progressed) and went too far as far as "only friends". I talked to them both about it and things got better! I thought everything was going so well and then one night, after my boyfriend had cooked dinner (wow!) and we watched a movie, he just dropped it on me that he didn't feel right about our relationship and that he still liked me, but only wanted to be friends. He showed up at my door three days later, asking me to hang out and watch a movie with him. He also invited me to go with him on a road trip to see our mutual friends,. Why would he do that? He calls me all the time and texts. It hurts to just see him. I feel like such a rebound! It hurts! Its been a week. I want so badly to be angry with him, but I can't stop missing him. I know I can do better, everyone tells me how they never liked him and how they didn't understand how he ended up with a girl like me.
What do I do? I feel like such a rebound! It hurts! Its been a week
Update: Oh yeah, and my girl friend was dating her previous boyfriend the whole time my boyfriend and I were dating.
4 months ago
Just move on. If he wanted to end it so fast, then move on. I don't like how you didn't give you much reason as to why he was leaving you. He does seem like a nice guy, but perhaps all that hanging out with your friend has clouded his judgment. I think perhaps he broke up with you so that he doesn't hurt you or end up cheating on you with her.
Personally I think your friend isn't a good friend at all. She introduced you to someone who LIKED HER. And in the process of what she originally thought to be a pity thing, she ended up starting to like him all her own. She should have left the two of you alone.
You still have feelings for him because it's only been a week. You can't just instantly not have feelings for someone even if they do something like this to you. Being a rebound really sucks, I know, but you just have to realize that there is someone out there that will fall in love with you and treat you better than your ex. You'll eventually get over the heartbreak, but it might take a while. Don't rush into anything because you don't want to rebound onto someone else and do the same thing your ex did to you. Keep your head up!
you find a guy who' s into you you can't persuade a guy to like you. a guy has to make up his own mind that he likes you for whatever reasons that he has to like a girl that he likes. like if you want a guy to like you, you do certain things but if he just doens't like you, you can't force him too. it sounds like you like this guy a lot but it sounds like a one way relationship. id say let go. he keeps chasing this firend of yours, it's gonna hurt you if you don't let go. I'd just distance myself from the both of them if I was you. what your friend is doing is not considerate at all. you're going otu with this guy and she's still flirting with him? let him get his heart broken again and once he does get heart broken, do not take hm back.
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