So one of my guy friends tries to talk and flirt with me at a party (I try to stay distant and not really talk to him), but at the end of the party he's like give me a hug goodbye so I give him a hug to be nice and all of a sudden he tries to kiss me, I tell my boyfriend what happened and he gets really upset and mad...we basically argue over that for a day or 2, the next week when I'm walking to class all of a sudden another one of my guy friends just comes up and kisses me, and I am very disgusted by it cause I don't even like him like that and plus I have a boyfriend....and I never told my boyfriend what happened...so a few days later he finds out what happens and he's really upset with me(he even says that all the trust just went out) because I didn't tell him, I say I'm sorry and tell him I know I was wrong for not telling him..and I was basically saying I didn't know what to do cause I was so shocked about it.....the next day he breaks up with me because he said it was cause of baseball and didn't have anytime for me cause of baseball season..which he kind of really doesn't cause we haven't really had the chance to even hangout outside school, but mainly I think it was cause of all the drama I caused him from the party to the boy kissing me...so now we are just friends,(and when he was breaking up with me he was like well I still love you and like you a lot). I even asked him if we would ever go back out and he says "You were one of the best girlfriends I've had so I definitely would see us going back together in the future or whenever I get my mind and business together." I can't stop thinking about him...and I really miss him a lot..and I'm hurt by like the whole situation.....and people ask me everyday why y'all break up and I can't even talk about it...and I want him back....what do I do??
It sounds like you may be putting yourself in situations where other guys feel they can just come up to you and kiss you. What are you doing to attract this unwanted attention? What are you doing to make sure people know in advance that this kind of attention is not wanted? You need to make it clear to your boyfriend that you are only interested in him, and do this publicly so that he has real confidence that you are sending signals to other guys to say, "Back off. "
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
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