Ok- My ex after some years of being apart has found me through my brother and apparently- my ex still has feelings for me and wants me back and I still have feelings for him too BUT I recently just found out from my brother that he has had sex with my ex's girlfriend while they (my ex and his ex-girlfriend- the one my brother also slept with) were still dating. So now I kinda find myself stuck between a rock and a hard place because in a way- having sex- if I decided to take my ex back would mean that me and my brother shared the same lovers by association and that just doesn't sit well with me- not sure about the rest of you guys so my question is:
(And both sexes can answer because I really need answers and opinions right now :)
Have you or would you ever take your lover back knowing they slept with your sibling or your sibling had sex with your so and so's boy/girlfriend? And how did (would) you react?
I haven't spoken with my ex yet but I found about all this through my brother who is in contact with him and he tells me that my ex wants me back and that he still loves me. He(my ex) wants to meet with and talk to me. I have instructed my brother not to tell him where I live or reveal my phone number. I have been stalling because I'm not sure what to say or tell him. But I still do love him. Sorry for repeating - just trying to explain as best as I can. Thanks in advance.
This sounds like a Jerry Springer moment. But if your ok with that and you want your relationship to have a foundation of uneasiness and dysfunction then by all means get back together with the guy. But it sounds like you have enough issues with the situation you should just move on to something new a fresh. Find a man without whom you have a problems with. Sometimes problems can be worked through but often times you still hold stuff in and it will brought up in future conversations, and that's not cool.
You're sharing lovers in a way but not exactly. Your brother didn't have sex with your ex, so you can't really say that your ex slept with your sibling. Yeah it is pretty weird because these two guys may be in the same room one day and have that uncomfortable feeling that they slept with the same woman but obviously it doesn't bother them that much because they still talk (how else would your brother know bout his feelings for you? ). Your story puts the girl in a bad situation because she's the cheater in the relationship, not your ex. So if you feel like you really love this guy, then take him back and see where things go.
Well, I really don't see a problem. I know that is odd coming from me, the one who comments on everything. If you still love the guy after all these years? Who cares who he had sex with. If it wasnt your Brother then you should give him a chance if the feelings are that strong. Go for it sweetie. He could end up being the love of your life. Dont pass that up.
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