Has anyone ever got to this point? I have had 2 relationships over the past 7 years. One of lated 5 years and was ready to pop the question and got had my heart shattered, then I dated a lot of different girls after I took a year off to get life back in order. Then I met this one girl and things were going great. To good actually and I decided to open my heart back up after I just got it back together to just have it broken apart again. It seems that when I meet a really great girl which is just so hard to find these days, that it always ends up blowing up in my face. I would understand if things wasn't going good or if there was a big fight, but things go so well the whole time and then the next day they just up and end it. Looking for some input.
I hear ya! Dating sucks when you are a good guy or girl. Keep your head up you will find a great girl that you won't ever have to question. She is out there, you just can't give up on finding her. If you do, you will have to go buy a bunch of cats and a rocker and a afghan blanket and scare all the neighbor kids off your grass!!! You don't want to end up one those old men do ya???
Honey, you don't need to give up on dating just because you had bad relationships in the past. That's not the way to go, there is someone out there for you and as well as everyone else. Yes you will have you heart broken but that's what life is about and you learn from it. I believe each person has a soul mate in this world. So I don't think you should give up dating at all, I've had friends whose heart were broken more than twice and she still never gave up, you have to realize that great things come for those who wait, and its true. Just because your relationship blew up in your face doesn't mean its over for you. Keep searching, there are many great girls out there, so Go ON and find her. It will be hard, but it will be worth the time.
I can understand that. I easily open up to people and I'm not as defensive as most people. Girls seem to be more defensive about letting their feelings out when they have been hurt in the past. I find it hard when I get into a relationship and I want to move forward and they don't. It seems like their insecurities get in the way of a good life. I mean some girls will stay with you just because you are there. I find that to be a complete waste of time. Why would you stay in a relationship with someone that you don't care about? It confuses me. If I get into a relationship I want to be able to let my feelings grow. I am honest, trustworthy, and I remain committed. And there is not a girl on this website that will say that they don't want all three of those. That makes me a catch. And if the girl I'm with doesn't notice that. Then it is on to the next. One day someone will notice how great you really are and you will eventually understand that what you felt before wasn't really love at all.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 8 months ago
asked Yesterday
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