Well me and ex boyfriend have been broken up for 2 months after a wonderful 2 years one of which has been long distance. In December he started saying that he needed some space and that it was because we were arguing too much. For these past few months we've been on and off on the talking. But he called me last Friday and told me that he loved me, that he needed me in his life and that he knew at the end of the day that he wanted to be with me and that he would do whatever it took for us to get back together. But every time I asked him question so that I wouldn't feel too insecure he would get mad at me and then he would pull away from me. We basically we talked for four days after he called Friday and said all the things and we got into an argument on Monday and then he said he changed his mind and that he didn't want to be with me any more. And now he talking to this new girl and he was talking about love and all this he wished what they can have is real and he just started talk to her Tuesday after he stopped talking to me on Monday. I have her sn on aim and every time I see her away messages she's always talking about him and how they are spending time together. So was he lying to me when he said all those things and if he wasn't why he putting this girl he just met before me.
Update: No he's not he player type at all. I mean he told me that when he was single he used to talk to a lot of girls but I don't know what's going on with him lately. I am supposed to go to see him this Friday. Should I go and clear things out?
8 months ago
I don't think he's worth your time. You can find someone else who's better for you, who can cherish and love you and won't lie to you. You can't really help who you fall in love with, believe me, I've fallen in love with a couple of guys who ended up being jerks, but you can choose who you want to be with. If this guy wants another girl, he ain't for you, and if he's lying to you, he really is not the right guy for you. So look for someone who is sincere in all they do and really respects you
Either this guy is really out of it, or he has girl issues. But in other cases, he still likes you. And I think his plan is to make you jealous! He probably told that girl to put those away messages because he probably knows you might have her sn out of the blue. If he told you all those things you said and actually meant it, then he wasn't joking with you. You should really ask what his problem is. I mean I would, basically his whole plan is to make you jealous.
Then again, he might be saying what he told you to every girl he meets. Tell me this! -Is he a player type? -Is he the cheating type? -Which one is he?