I know this guy, I went out with him for a month. Well it was not really going out. We didn't do much stuff like couple do. We just gave hugs and say hi to each other, so he started acting means to me. He acted like he didn't care. He even acted like a jerk to make me jealous. So I ask my best friend what should I do about him. My best friend told me to break up with him,so I did. Now his friends are making fun of me, saying stupid things to me. Every day at lunch or after school they'll come to me and say stupid thing in my face. Well he only do it when he's with his guy friends. He don't come up to me alone. So the question are why him and his friends acting like that? Please help.
Those guys are punks. From my analysis, it is likely that this guy liked you, but then he saw a dating advice somewhere online that women are attracted to jerks. Because you guys "didn't do much stuff like couple do," he started acting like a jerk, in hope you'd be more attracted to him. After the break up, it's likely that he hates you, told his friends about what happened, and now just want to make you feel bad because of what you did to him. Lesae gave you a really good advice. Only the right type of people can deal with punks and bullies like those.
He is not coming to you alone, which could mean that he's afraid of something, what that is I don't know. Does he say stupid things to you too? If he does, then he's just another punk who's not gonna get laid by good girls. If he doesn't, then it could be just his friends wanting revenge.
Social pressures, showing emotional pressures indicates weakness amongst uncultured men, who even cultured men feel a need to appease.
Acting mean, uncaring, like a jerk, attempting to invoke jealousness. These are all really petty sort of things. If you see something in this guy that makes you want to put up with that, then do so, otherwise I don't see the point in trying to change it. You can't really force people to mature. Sometimes people call each other out, but it can often get misinterpreted as being whiny if not correctly presented, and it tends to kill the romance, if any exists in the first place in this sort of atmosphere.
They're probably acting like that because its a guy thing or something. but if he treating you wrong I say dump him a guy is to treat you with respect at all times with or without his friends around. if he acts different when he's with you like all lovely and stuff front him out in front of his friends and let them know how he act when he's not around them and see how he likes that he was so wrong and disrepectful to act stupid when he's with his friends that's so un call for
Ahh. Poor thing. They are very very immature and like to pick on you. But, it can hurt because you think they are focusing mainly on you instead of any of the other girls. Well, it could be that the boy told them lies or somethings that you told him and they like teasing you to make themselves feel better. If it gets out of hand why don't you talk to the school counselor or your Parents. I know its like why would you want to do that. But, believe me sometimes it helps. Ignoring them might help to. Saying stuff back just fuels them. Keep your head up. Don't let the punks get to you.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 8 months ago
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