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Is my ex too hurt to call me?
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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He broke up with me like in the beginning of this week, but even if we're broken up my ex is still calling me. And he still sounds concerned about the things I do or how I feel. He would always ask me what I was going to do after school for about 2 days straight and I guess ONCE AGAIN I've grown to him calling and asking me that.

I just saw my ex yesterday when he called me after school and asked me what I was doing and I said nothing and so he asked if he could see me- I let him because I wanted to see him too. We chilled and enjoyed each other's company and sometimes he would flirt with me and try to hold me too. Yet in the back of my mind, something was telling me that this wasn't right. I don't know why I felt that way and after that realization- I was kind of distant from him. I think he realized that but he ignored it- he still flirted but he kept it to a minimum. Later on that night (last night) he called me 3 times. I missed 2 of his calls and finally answered the 3rd one.

He asked what I was going to do after school today ONCE AGAIN (this would be TODAY after school) and I said nothing, just go home since I had no plans. And then once again I had that feeling where things weren't "right". So I ended the phone call pretty early and I FEEL SOOOOOOOO GUILTY for that. He sounded REALLY hurt like he was choking on his words and he tried to sound happy even if he was hurt. I know him so well that I even felt his pain in my heart. I told him that I would just talk to him later and then I said bye and hung up after he said good bye to me.

And NOW?! He didn't even call me afterschool like he did the past 2 days. WHY DIDN'T HE CALL ME?! I'm sitting by my phone right now checking every hour. And 2 hours already passed (i end school at 2:00 PM) and he still didn't call. He knows when I end school, but I don't get it. Did that phone call made him change his mind about seeing me today? Did it hurt him so much that he chose to NOT see me today? I know I shouldn't call but do you think he'll take the chance to TRY and call me later on tonight? I'm going crazy, I'm starting to feel really numb again. Please tell me what's up :(
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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
Why do you think your not suppose to call him?

I don't call people anymore, but when I did, if I found myself always being the one calling, then I would stop calling them - its a two way street - if I call someone several times over a week or so, and they never call me on their own - Buh-Bye Sweet-heart, forever~
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Sugarcoat (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Maybe you should call him.
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