How can I get her back?

girls want to be special. if you want her back you should probably go hang out with her and not push her too much at first. pretend to listen and be interested in what she is saying and does. it doesn't hurt to compliment. even if a girl k ur bull sh*tting she'll like that.if you give her attention and find a way for her to trust you again then you should be set. best of luck.

Well, I see it this way, if you really love her like you say, you wouldn't have cheated on her. If I found out my boyfriend cheated on me, that would be his last chance. So if she does take you back, don't mess it up this time. Make sure it's what you really want but it is going to take time for her to get through it and to trust you all over again and sometimes, it doesn't work that out well. Really, you should have told her about it right away or just not done it. Keeping that information for that long shows that you didn't have the respect for her in the first place. Next time, and all the time, put yourself in her shoes...if you wouldn't want her to do it to you, then don't do it to her.

if you really love her and want her back you have to gain that trust back.. ask ur self if she cheated on you would you forgive her and if you would what will it take .. what can she do to prove to you that she has changed.. if you told her when it happend she might have forgiven you because you were honest with her.. girls hate it when guys lie to them it really hurts and cheating is just like ripping there heart out... so I'm gonna tell you talk to her about it apologize over and over beg her for forgiveness let her know she means everything to you she might yell at you a lot and then cry .. if she starts to cry hold her in ur arms and tell her you love her and ur willing to do anything for her.. hopefuly that works for you .. but next time NO CHEATING...>.<

Well no sh1t sherlock, of course she broke up with you. You don't cheat on someone you claim to love, because if you loved her you wouldn't go around screwing someone else. I can guarantee that she won't take you back at least if she was smart. You have broken any and all trust that you two had built, and that you can never get back. I speak from experience due to the fact that I have been cheated on , and I don't care what you tried to do I would never take you back. Honestly if you try to get her back you would do nothing but making a fool of yourself. I hope that the girl you cheated with was worth it, and I hope your now ex-girlfriend finds a real man.

Ummm you kinda deserve to suffer.
You kept it from her for so long, and you probably would've never told her anyway.
Do you know how painful it is to be cheated on?
Do you know how she felt when she had to find out from someone else?
Do you know what she is going through right now?

But anyways, if by some miracle, she takes you back, it's not going to work out. You've lost her trust. Unless she could forgive you, get over it, and never bring it back, then it really won't work. you two will fight about it, a lot.

Relationships can't go back to the way they used to be after the trust is gone... there will be something missing... umm trust.

well if you new she was going 2 break-up with you if you cheated why did you do it. also you should have tol her when it first happend 2 . know she has 2 reason not 2 get back with you because your a cheater and you don't tell the truth... the question is should she take you back think about it. you were better off telling her when it happen . she may 4 I've you by know.

Exactly, you don't cheat on the person you really love...
Just tell her it meant nothing and hope for the best, otherwise I'm sorry :/

if you love her so much..then why would you cheat?

sorry dude, actions have consequences. and you have to learn to live with them. if the role was reversed I'm sure youd have done the same.

so here is what you will do. you will tell her you absolutely regret that you did what you did and that it eats at you inside knowing you hurt her. then you'll tell her that you don't expect her to ever forgive you either but that you are willing to try to earn back her trust if she feels like trying to salvage the relationship if it meant anything to her.

finally you have to be willing to except her not forgiving you and kicking you in the balls. you may have suffered from a monumental moment of weakness, but what should have stopped you was the image of your 'love' crying about finding out you are cheating, which you did. you didn't think about her and now you are where you are.

and so help me god, if she takes you back and you ever pull another stunt like this, I would hope she's got the fortitude to cut your nards off.

good luck and grow up.

I can understand things from your point of view, although all guys and girls here say she is not ought to get back to you by any means... if you have cheated in her, and you are regretting that now, it doesn't mean that you don't love her enough, it's the sexual attraction that might have been enough for you from her. I was with a girl and I loved her more than anything else, and needed a whole year to get over her, at points I wished I would die only because she is not with me anymore... at the same time, I wasn't sexually attracted to her! I imagined myself having sex with one, two, three or even ten girls for one night, and I even imagined myself having sex with another girl for years and still loving my first one that left me, and that wouldn't make me love her less... I know, this is sick, but you were wrong as well, make her a deal or something, I don't really know, do something you never done before, show her that you regret what you did and she is the most important to you

By cheating on your girlfriend and not even telling her that you made a mistake back then, you betrayed her trust, and she shouldn't take you back, ever.