My ex and I have known each other for about a year now... I've recently found out he was really attracted to me when we first met, and I asked him out last December. Well... I broke up with him in February, and we went for two weeks without talking.
So then a friend's birthday party comes around, we gradually start talking and hanging out again from there, and he asks me out about a month later, mid March. Well this time I fell really hard for him... So much so that I'm sure I smothered him. The first month was bliss, the last two not so much, as he avoided me and acted like a jerk sometimes. It didn't help that I didn't see him as much, I went to night school and worked on a different schedule.
He broke up with me on May 30th and we haven't talked since... UNTIL! Three days ago! School started up again, I went back to high school and saw him the first day. Poked him and asked how he'd been. He left without another word.
Yesterday, I ran up and tickled him as he ran to his car, and he walked with me to it, but didn't really say good bye. No biggie, I thought, it was something. Today I saw him as I came in late, he actually said 'Hi' to me this time... I ran out and hugged him from behind, we both laughed n_n
So then later as I was driving home my car overheated, leaving me on the side of the road. He stopped and asked what happened, pulled over and got out to keep me company for a minute or two! As he was leaving I asked if he would hug me and he did! But anywho, he asked if I would be alright, I said yes, and he left.
I don't want to make the same mistake twice, I'm still very in love with him, but I don't want to push him away again. What should I do? Just play cool and not even ask if he wants to be friends again? Should I keep initiating contact as we leave school or...?
And here's the big question... Do you guys think that I still have a chance to get back with him?
...I doubt it. Sounds like he cares about you personally, but wants nothing more. (Yes, that's possible. I feel it towards my ex all the time.)
You're on the threshold of dealing with truly adult level pain of having and losing and having to deal with that. This one hurts like nothing else. I'm not even sure we're stronger or better people for having lived through such pain. But there it is.
Don't get your hopes up. Cry when you have to, but don't get cynical. You've made the point that you're willing to takes steps towards him to fill the void. Be graceful and strong: and keep your own self-respect and don't take too many more steps. Be the best person you can be. He might take a step on your direction: he might not. Prepare yourself for the latter, and follow that age-old infantry soldier saying: "Keep on keepin' on."
I think you gnna surely get him back. and abt makin mistake again I don't find doing any mistake, as you are in love with him.. There are ups and downs in every relationship. and moreover it seems like he too have got kind of same feelings for you too..
He must feel that you love him and respect his desire for the kind of life that he would like to lead. He must feel that you would stand by him emotionally.
Guys feel suffocated and scared if you treat them like private property and try to change them.
It is always possible to get a guy back, unless you have cheated on him or hurt him badly.
With the way things had gone, do you want to get back with him? Maybe you two would make better friends then a couple. Just let the waters flow, don't rush somthing that may not be there. If he is still interested you will know.
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