So I was in a relationship with this guy for about a month, when he broke up with me for a noble but dumb reason. So now we have been hanging out and "dating" ever since we broke up (about 5 months now) and he does not want to be in a relationship with me for whatever reason, but we have been having sex, and he takes me out and pays for dates and movies, we talk on the phone, we double date with his brother, and he considers me "his very close friend" and "likes to keep his emotions bottled up". So what is the deal? Does he want me as more than a friend deep down,and just not telling me. Or am I JUST a close friend that he likes to bone?! HEELLPP! I LOVE this man! Lol
Im not gonna lie, if he doesn't want to express his emotions to you Id bet you're casual sex to him. You gotta straighten it out with him before you get yourself mixed up with something that's gonna hurt you. Cause if I were him I wouldn't stop a good thing.
You know I was thinking about the whole casual sex thing,But he is really is a great guy. I mean we are both Christians, and we both have the same attitude about premarital sex (don't do it! Lol) But yet time and time again we mess up. I don't know. But you don't think there is a chance that he likes me?! Even though we always may end up in bed later on. We hang out for hours and hours before it gets to that point, and he knows eventually I will have enough self control to cut him off ,lol. - 5 months ago
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Yeah there's always that possibility but what I'm saying is you have to let him know that you hope its going in that direction. If he isn't aware of relationship intentions, he may not have them himself. - 5 months ago
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But he is aware. He knows I care about him. He knows my feelings, but he gets uncomfortable when it comes to sharing his, and just refuses to answer my questions by avoiding them or changing the subject or telling me he refuses to answer my questions (in a cute joking/teasing way, ofcourse, lol). I don't know. Maybe I really am just a friend :-( and I should just give up and stop stop talking to him all together. - 5 months ago
You are unhappy with your current relationship with this guy, right? Well, unless you make some changes, it's going to stay the way it is -- the guy giving you little or nothing emotionally, but getting sex when and where he feels like it. Eeww. You know what you need to do, so just do it. No more casual sex with this guy -- that's totally over! If he wants to be back in a relationship with you, then perhaps, after a while, the sex can resume. Until then, nothing, and there are no exceptions. Be firm and strong about this, and you will find out surprisingly quickly how this guy really feels about you, and whether he deserves your love at all. Good luck!
Well lets start with the fact that you really do love this guy and you said you had only been with him for over a month so how old are you and how old is this guy cause it is a bit mad because I have been with a guy for over 18months and well I thought he was the right guy for me so I no what it is like for you but you need 2 sit down with him and you both should think if you really want 2 get back 2gether or not right and if you do then you should let me no how it is going and then it will be great with him because he must be the right guy if you want 2 get back with him if I was you and do you no this guy very well how long have you none him for then because for I had been with my old boyfriend for over 18month and I am upset now that me and him are not together anymore right but if I wanted 2 get back with him I couldn't get back with him because my family don`t like him have your family meet this guy then ok I am always here for you if you need anymore advice or help ok.
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Let's see I think that the night would start out by going out for supper in a nice restaurant where I could wear a cute little dress with heels. After that maybe go out dancing is a club then a nice walk afterwards.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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