So things end and in a fight and the two people stop talking. . .
Now what?
People know they're sad, but they're also confused. Should they be mad at the other person? Should they be happy they are gone? This confusion can be extremely frustrating.
What does closure do? Closure may not make you feel less sad but it might give you piece of mind.
Do you respect a person more if they are willing to give you closure?
Closure lets you know to move on and to give up. It's Ok to be mad at first but, I can't stay mad at my ex to save my life. I still don't have my closure so of course I still get that carrot dangling in front of my face of maybe one day. Its a terrible place to be and its not healthy. Closure is respecting the other person enough to find someone else.
Yes, I'll definitely respect a person more If they are willing to give me closure. It'll give me peace of mind. It'll tell me why the relationship didn't work out and what I could do better the next time I'm in a relationship to not let this happen again. It's a learning experience. I think If you break up with a girl and have been good to her, honest with her and treated her well but for some reason it didn't work out, then I think she owes it to you to explain why she did the things that, at one point, left you wondering why she did it? In life, we'll all going to be rejected and that is something we have to accept, but If there's closure in the relationship, then it'll feel like it's a burden of you shoulder and it'll help you move on from the relationship even more.
Yes, I would take it as a last kind gesture that she doesn't bear me any ill will. That we just weren't a good match and that was all. It also is a sign of maturity, which would be nice in that I would know I wasn't wasting my time on someone who was a bad choice to begin with.