my ex and I see each other weekend. We are still really good friends and are always there for each other whenever there is a problem. we aren't intimate anymore, nor do we talk about the past.. I guess you can say we have created this friendship to keep each other in our lives.we've never had a time where we had no contact (not on purpose, he went away on a work trip and didn't have reception or internet for about 3 weeks) he broke up after 2 years due to his work and uni commitments and couldn't make me happy because he was always so busy. He has never left my life so its hard to move on. I love him and I want to tell him. I have tried to not mention the breakup or the past because it always hurts me to think about it, and I don't want any tension between us. I haven't told him I love him since the first month of our separation.I don't expect him to come back to me at this time, I know how committed he is, but I just want him to know that I have always loved him and that I always be there for him when he needs me. and I guess I want to tell him when he is ready, I am here.. I have told him many times that if he didn't want to have this friendship he can always leave, but he hasn't. I don't know what that shows, I guess he still wants me and his life. We have been broken up for 3 months now so obviously the feelings are still there..
I have to agree with the other post on here. Cut ties. "If you let it go and it comes back to you... then it was meant to be." How true those words are.
It appears to me... that you two are cut in a limbo... and HE wants the best of both worlds. He wants you in his life as the female friend... keeping you in the friendzone... while he pursues his life and his career (and other women).
I've been there. It sucks. I've cried for days... and even stepped up to the plate and told him that I was in love with him. In love enough to know I had to let him go. Honey you have to put his happiness above your own. Sacrifice is love. And if letting him go to pursue his dreams is what he wants (and that is why you broke up)... then let him do that.
In my case... he came back to me... ready for love and intimacy. I hope the best for you.
Did you ever hear the expression it you love something let it go and if it comes back to you is meant to be? That's my out look on life, I was with a guy for 3 years and I will always love him in some way, He's always going to have a piece of you life. But there is a reason that you broke up and unless that situation changed then if you and him get back together its still not going to work out. In my experience being friend with an ex is not a good ideal one cause you never move on and two you'll always hope to get back together. My advice is don't tell him that you love him cause once you do you will never be able to take it back and come on now if you only broke up 3 months ago he has to know that you still love him. Try to move on see what happens and in a year or so things change for him with work and everything then try it out again but your still young and you have your whole life to live
I think the best thing to do, is get this off your chest.. that's right, you need to tell him. If you love him, you need to tell him. If he cares about you that much, he will know how to handle it and be there for you like he obviously always is :) He deserves to know how you really still feel about him, and if he wants to be there for you, he won't make a big deal about it and make it awkward or worse for you.. good luck :)
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