My wife divorced me a couple of months ago married 10 years have two kids 10 and 8. We were each others first. Known each other for 14 years. I still love my wife very much and I would love to be a family again, I have made some mistakes and my past was haunting me. And her past haunts her to. She cheated on me with the guy next door and we fight all the time. She starts it and when I want to talk she hangs up the phone. But just a week ago we talked and I told her I forgive her and I am the person you fell in love with because the past is the past and I love the way I feel and I don't ever want to lose this feeling again. Then I told her I love you very much and she said ok. Before she would hang up the phone or say its over get over it but this time she did not. What does she mean or want even the past couple of times after we talk with no fighting and i say I still have strong feelings for you she still says ok. I even made her a cd with our love songs and our wedding song and she sings to them my kids till me does she still love and she she giving me another chance and not telling me please help really in love
My heart goes out to you , you sound like a devoted husband and wonderful father. I'm sorry you're in pain right now and it sounds like she's a bit confused. Maybe she feels like with the mistakes she's made she doesn't deserve you. I have a feeling though that she will come back and you'll have a happy family again. Maybe marriage counseling and family counseling will help. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers because divorce is so common nowadays and I'm relieved to see at least one person willing to work at it. I wish you all the best.
It is really hard for someone to love and just forget love that fast no matter what she will always love you and even if she does not say it she still does but before I say anymore can you tell me what is in your past that would he hunting you
My past I was abused by my dad and by my moms boyfriend. and I was put in jail for helping someone out that really messed me up I was a different person after that that's when my wife saw a change in me but know I am over it after all this years. and hers is the same abouse by her mom and she was raped befor I met her so I try to protect her - 5 months ago
Well, I am actually in the same position that you are in. I have been with my soon to be ex wife for five years with a two year old son. She cheated on me twice with two different guys in the matter of two weeks. I have forgiven her and told that I still loved her. However she has never really told me sorry for cheating on me, just that she was sorry for hurting me. The only thing that you can really do is to tell her how you are feeling and move on from there. You need to give her space and see what happens. I don't think it would be in your best interest to continue to sit there and tell her that you love her and that you want to get back together with her. If you have said it once, than that is enough. It sounds like she is the one who left you not the other way around, so it needs to be her decision to want to try things again. But I do know what you mean when she says something and then your mind sits and wonders what exactly did she mean by saying that. My ex asked me if I would get back together with her one day and I told her that I would. Weeks later her lawyer is accusing me of trying to get back together with her. So you have to be careful and take everything for face value. I hope this helps, and wish you the best of luck.
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