I (25) recently got out of a relationship with a guy (40) that was going absolutely nowhere. Well I had to get really ugly with him, because he started being mean to me when I simply told him straight up that I didn't want to chill with him anymore. He called me names and I laughed it off in an attempt to let him know that he can't lower my self esteem or put me down. Well I went to the local park one day last week (with my kids). I met my new male friend there( with his kid). We were there for about 2 hours. The ex a** hole pulls up to the house across the street from the park. I decided to leave about 10 minutes later, but from a different exit so that I wouldn't have to run into him. Now he's telling people I'm spying on him. This is so childish and when I bring it up to him, of course he denies it. I get upset, because he's lying and I know he's telling people this, but I saw him this one time and didn't approach him. Plus I was there before he arrived. How do I handle this situation? I try to ignore, but it's hard.
You answered your own question. You just need to move on and ignore him the best that you can. The fact that guy is 40 and acting like he is 4 speaks volumes for his character. You need to just move on with your life and cut all ties to this guy and hope that one day he will also move on.
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