OK so I started seeing a guy from work, we really hit it off and liked each other a lot, loads in common. we were together about a month. he told me he loved me after a week! WHOA. he was under a lot of pressure from work, and because we were trying 2 keep it secret for a bit we only met up in 1 place, never went on a date because he had to work so much. he started being really funny and cold...especially after having sex, but he blamed this on the work situation, I said I understood and was patient, but I couldn't do it anymore and finished it. I thought he was playing me and wasn't interested, he admitted he didn't put his ALL in2 it but he said he did want 2 b with me. everyone at work found out and we got lots of grief and teased, he didn't take that well! anyway nasty texts followed to each other and misunderstandings. so we stopped texting for a bit. and NOW he sends me friendly texts, how are you blah blah, but at work barely speaks to me. now he's arranged to help me shop as I have a new place, he is coming over soon and with beers and to have a catch up, just the 2 of us. if I don't text he finks he's dun something wrong, so what is going on in this boys head and what is he REALLY after? as I haven't a clue. P.S he's not a very open person. honesty please boys.
Well, this is a very similar situation that happened. Guys tend to be very very...shy and sensitive about this kind of stuff. Put it this way. Guys want to be friends with girls. But when something happens when the dude gets his reputation hurt in some way (for this instance being made fun of), the guy tends to keep his relationships secret. He honestly really cares for you, but he is afraid to show it in case his friends might make fun of him or something like that. But when he feels that something goes wrong, he kind of gets the sense that he needs to change everything. Now in this case, he probably does want to catch up, but at the same time he could be after sex. That's what happened to a co-worker of mine. Had a bad thing with a guy, and he kept texting later asking to get back together or trying to hook up. Just watch out. If he tries being pushy then you know he only wants to get in your pants.
i think you guys are better off friends. well, I think you should open up to him and make it seem its okay to be open with you. and ask hi whatsup. and its okay to talk to you.
Very true, when he comes over we are having drinks and he's been texting me a lot lately, making the effort and I don't wanna ask him whatsup incase it makes things awkward again? I really still have feelings for him. very confused! - 2 months ago
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Well I don't want you to feel akward but if I was you I would ask him because there's a possibility. you never know unless you take a chance. and if I told you wrong. I'm sorry. - 2 months ago
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Sounds like he is not ready for anything serious with you. Its sex and someone to chill with but never believe the excuse of work becasue if someone really wanted to make time with you, they will. No date? because he doesn't want to date you. Nothing wrong with you. he just doesn't want a gilfriend.
I know you wanted guys point of views..but sometimes its good to have to point of views :) So I think you should talk to him about this stuff. Ask him if he was just in it for the sex etc. because, really, that's the only way you're going to find the real answer! :) Its a bonus if he is already comming over to "catch up", you can just bring it up then :) Good luck! Hope this helps :)
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