I met this guy a year ago at my friend's party . We've been friends ever since . In our friendship we were completely honest with each other . We were each other's best friends . I started having feelings for him that progressed throughout our friendship . When I decided to tell him how I felt he told me that he had a new girlfriend . When he started going out with her he started to ignore me . He made me feel like I didn't matter to him anymore . At first I didn't mind but after awhile it started bugging me . The more and more he told me how much he loved her I couldn't stand it . So finally one day I told him I was in love with him . He told me he didn't feel the same and that he was madly in love with his girlfriend . Even though he told me that he didn't love me I still couldn't forget about him . To this day I still feel the pain he put on my heart . I'm still heartbroken but for some reason I just can't get over him .
Sometimes we fall for our friends and don't even realize it until it is to late. I have a great friend that I had feelings for a long time ago. I had asked her out and she told me we were just friends and nothing more. Sure it hurt but as time went on we became close again and she is the best friend I could ever ask for. Yeah back in the corners of my heart I still have feelings for her but that is something I have to deal with. You can't get jealous of his girlfriend and expect him to still want to talk to you. If you really care about him its best to just be a good friend and be there for him. If he has feelings for you one day he will realize what he has in front of him and come around. If not is it worth loosing a friend over?
Hey, go do something for yourself, like get your hair done or a new pair of nice jeans . Grab a girlfriend and go somewhere where there is fun . Treat this like any loss that you will feel throughout your life . It is o . K . To feel hurt, anger and rejection . I would not push continuing the friendship because it would keep the wound open, and you need it to heal . Don't let day dreams run your life . You are young and have your whole life ahead of you . I know, I sound like your mom . Well I never had any daughters(two sons) . But life if is full of bumpy roads . And teenage life is real hard without the emotional roller coaster of relationships .
Let him miss you ! To tell you the truth, he sure doesn't sound like much of friend . Just remember, you don't have friend feelings . You are the one that can get hurt . Be careful ! Best of luck !
I have been through this already it took a lot of time to get over him well I'm still not over over him but its all good I'm getting over him just find another guy there are millions of nice guys out there . Your heart will heal in time but maybe you should tell him how you feel about him ignoring you tell him that even if he doesn't love you, you still want him as your friend instead of getting hurt more from him ignoring you . If he is really your friend he wouldn't ignore you ask him if your friends and that he hasn't been acting like a friend maybe he should see that your really hurt by his actions . If it doesn't work out look for another guy there are plenty of awesome guys out there .
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 8 months ago
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