What should I do to get a guy back that I love?

Well number one you cheated on him. I'm sorry but if you really loved him as much as you say why would you ever do that? Is it you really want him back because you love him or because you can't stand being alone? What do you mean by getting physical with each other? If he hit you, or you hit him neither one of you deserve that. Sure it hurts and you feel like you can't move on but after a while the pain eases and your judgement clears. Why did you always fight? I never understood why some people always wanted to fight about the dumbest stuff. Your best bet is to just give him his space and take the time to reflect the things that happened between you two. I was engaged for over two years and have a wonderful two year old mother. For some reason her mom stopped loving me and constantly was pushing me away by picking fights everyday. Finally she cheated on me then left. Yes it hurt but maybe it was for the best. You can't make someone love you and sounds like you two just were not meant to be.

I've found that it's very rare that a relationship that ends in vane (ie . Cheating) doesn't work out for round 2 . And since you both already have no problem fighting and being physical, I couldn't foresee anything lasting in the long term . The cheating thing will always come back, no matter what .

If he wants to be apart, you should honor that . I know this isn't the answer you'd LIKE to hear but you screwed up, you SHOULD apologize, but don't expect him to take you back just because you were able to 'woman up' to it . If he decides to forgive you, he will come back to you .

I speak from experience on his side . She wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side and found out it was brown . My heart is whole again but I know she still lingers over the actuality in it because I have not forgiven her; and most likely won't .

Just my personal insight, good luck regardless .

Get physical with each other ? What does that mean ? And did he break up because he found out you cheated on him ?

Anyways, your best bet is not to push the matter . Since he says he loves you but just wants to be friends, then maybe is in your best interest to remain that best friend, and maybe with time he will be in love with you again; however, if you push it too much now, the possibility is highest that he will alienate himself more from you .

In these cases every guy is different, and it all depends on his personality . For example, if somebody cheated on me, believe me, I would never go back to that person . Never . No matter what they did . If this guy has the same ideals, then it will be as tough; however, other guys are more lenient so you could be ok . But being too aggressive early on, might not help your cause . So all you can do is say that you're happy that he still wants to be your friend . And of course, you should apologize for what you did, and also voice the fact that you truly regret what you did, and that you're also thankful for still giving you the chance to be his friend, etc . But I wouldn't be asking to be his girlfriend again, at least not just yet; I would let time go a little, and maybe he will forget .

Ok, so it's confirmed that he still has strong feelings about you. And the jealousy thing is definitely happening (which is of course why he freaked out about your date). You still have his attention, for sure. On the other hand, this guy sounds volatile. Does he have a bad temper? Anger management problems? Does he ever get violent? You may need to be careful here. But I assume you know that.

The ball is in his court and you have to give him time and space to figure out if he meant that he's not in love with you. You can't make someone be in love with you, especially after cheating on them.

You need to make him want you again, both physically and otherwise . You also need to instill some fear in him that he is making a big mistake . Begging or acting desperate won't achieve that . A better approach might be to work on looking as pretty and attractive as you can, and smiling whenever you see each other, showing that you have your act totally together . And if he could see some handsome guys flirting with you, that might not be a bad thing, either . Jealousy can be a wonderful motivator .

Talk to him sit him down and tell him you were wrong . It is important for him to know your admitting you made a mistake, he should know how you feel but there are other guys in the world . You could ask him how he feels about the problem it is very important to know how each other feels, if it doesn't work out and you still love him become good friends the closer you guys get could lead to a relationship or ask for another chance .