I've just cheated on my girlfriend, I know it's up to her, but should I be given another chance?

I definitely think you two can work it out. But what I would say on your part is, when she's forgiven you for sure (and she has to say it out of her own mouth), ask her to let you two keep it in the past. You were ridiculously drunk and only kissed her.

It still hurts but a slip-up kiss is a lot easier to understand than accidentally have sex with someone which clearly takes a lot more effort so it's hard to see how you didn't realize what you were doing.

And once she lets go of it, you need to as well. Don't bring it up or do things that make you seem like you're just feeling bad and being extra nice. Try to let things go back to how they were.

She should not take you back >_>

If you feel so sorry and regret, then u're worth to be forgiven and have more 1 chance, then try to do anything to show her that you love her much and never do that again, just about time, should take time to get back the trust.

Yes she should you were drunk you can't control what you do it is not your fault for sure she should

Stop drinking. PERIOD.

if it was not ur intention to kiss the girl then you deserve a another chance. But I think you should make it up to ur girlfriend by doing something. I gues now u'l learn not to drink a lot huh?

if all you did was kiss her I would forgive you and take you back eventually but you would lose a lot of trust from me. good luck I hope everything works out for you and you learn from this

If it was just a kiss then yeah Id give you another chance, With the condition that if it ever happens again that would be it..no questions asked.
Although I would have trouble trusting you again after that, and How can you be sure you wouldn't do it again?
Id give you another chance..but it may take a while to get the trust back
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I would not forgive him had it been my boyfriend. Ask yourself this... If your girl had done some thing similar would you forgive her? Its overall up to what kind of person your girl is and how much faith she has in you but if it were me personally I don't think I'd speak to you for at least some time but I would definitely appreciate your honesty in the matter.

Okay, so you kissed her... and it wasn't like your girlfriend found out through someone else. You straight up told her. regardless of how the kiss wond up happening the fact is, YOU ARE AN HONEST MAN. You told her the truth. Yeah, you made a mistake, one that you should learn from. She will probably take you back, just don't take advantage... Give her some time. You did the right thing in the sistuation.

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Once again, 'the liquor made me do it...'

If I hear this one more time, I just may lose me head, ARRRRGGGGHHH!

Quite Frankly, I don't believe this story.. The way it probably happened is you got drunk, came on to another girl and things got heated. Then your girlfriend was being all nice to you and you felt guilty.

You haven't yet told her but you want to know if she will take you back after you tell, and your probably thinking of doing it again and not telling her...

BUT If your story is correct, you should NOT be taken back.. NO WAY. cos your an idiot, and once you have done something like that, you'll do it again. If she doesn't like you she will take you back.

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you bastard.

You feel guilty because you did something really wrong- and by telling her you were trying to rid yourself of your guilt but instead placed on her. Everyone can make mistakes but I would just wait this one out and see what she decides, at the end of the day you have put the ball in her court so it really is her call.

Personally, if this were her I'm talking with, I'd recommend she stop dating you.

At the very least, there's something that when you lose your inhibitions like that, you don't think about consequences, etc. And depending how often you get drunk, that is a sign of some other problems that need to be gone before you can get a healthy relationship.

I knew a guy who got so drunk, he landed himself in the hospital; easily could have died from it. And his response, "oh, I got a little buzzed. Ha ha ha!" No, he got alcohol poisoning. That's more than "a little buzzed" and a "little drunk." and shows a real lack of maturity on his part. He downplays it, so he'll probably do it again, not really learning from his problems. It also shows he has some MAJOR issues behind the drinking that would let him get to that point where he needs to get that drunk.

He didn't cheat, but it shows some underlying issues that he has that are REALLY not healthy; and they need to be fixed. Now, if you can realize this, and use it to improve yourself, and you won't forget this or downplay this or give excuses or blame this girl, and if you work on those underlying issues, then you might have a good chance. Not necessarily with this girl, but perhaps with someone else down the line.

And don't get yourself that drunk ever again.

You're lucky man don't mess it up. My girl won't give me a second chance and I didn't do anything like cheating.

Sure, but only if you can learn from the mistake and regain her trust. What I would do:

- Tell her what happened (not too much detail, just the important stuff).
- Mention that you were way drunk but DON'T act like this is a reasonable excuse.
- Tell her that you thought about it and realize that it was a mistake.
- Tell her you're sorry for hurting her but you thought it would be better to be honest about what happened rather than lie about it or cover it up.
- Tell her you won't do anything like that again.
- Don't do anything like that again.

No I don't think so, you cheated. You betrayed her trust and that my friend is hard to restore. There will always be this growing suspicion when you are kicking with your friends without her that you are carelessly making out with other girls. If you loved her you would not put yourself in situations that you are vulnerable. I certainly learned that with my ex-girlfriend even though we were long distant, I was looking at other prospects and thinking she had other guys in play and ultimately broke up with her. Neither of us are happy right now and all we get into are fights, none of us wanted that. If she takes you back make sure to conscious of what you are doing.

You are a man whore. and a boy scout. Seriously, admitting to your girl that you cheated on her! Now what are you going to tell her on your deathbed? "Honey, I have a confession to make. OH WAIT! I already told you that 60 years ago. I've got nothing"

tell her your sorry but if you do it again she should kick you to curb

This can be answered better by yourself.

Honestly answer yourself, why did this happen?

Try to be in the shoes of you girlfriend and think how she feels and what she thinks of you.

Also, think of how the other girl will feel what she will think of you if she learns that you "love" your girlfriend and did this.

Then, think of what it means about your character.

Don't expect to get away with it.
Maybe this first time but certainly not twice (or it would show clearly she's stupid)

Hey man she might end up forgiving you, but there is not telling if she'll trust you anymore. You may have just irreparably damaged your relationship in ways that may only get worse. I would like to tell you that you have a way of fixing things, but frankly you probably have whatever is coming to you. She might take you back but the trust is probably gone here. I wouldn't take back a girl who cheated on me. I might stay friends with her but seriously that would be about it.

Good luck man. You seriously need it.