Too make a long story short. I still love the ex, we were having problems, together approx. 3 years. He split with me when having to relocate, however contacting me realizing he had f'd up. Had contact etc. I was scared of being hurt etc. I told him I didn't think it would work, a few days later I was contacted and he claimed I was making a wrong decision, very upset. I have realized over the past few weeks I love him, miss him etc. I called out of the blue, he is already with someone like a week or so after he called me claiming I was making a mistake. I know that in some ways I have no right to be so stunned and hurt, however it is as if a week or so after calling me he is already seeing another chic. Does this sound F'd Up, I am regretting that I ever called, do you think maybe it is just a rebound for dealing with the pain, any friends I have asked think that after he wanted me and was so emotional and them to pull a 360o I wanted to ask some guys. Thanks for being patient with all this, welcome some advice. Signed Hurting
I am so sorry for your pain...I can't understand men like that. Of course your gonna love him still after 3 years...people don't spend 3 years together and forget about each other that fast. I think its messed up that he is seeing another chick already but in the same aspect, it seems like you were both confused about what to do with you relationship...Him spliting with you, you spliting with him..Im sure that he misses you too but, she is there and you are here. He's probably doing it for companionship and out of lonliness, missing what the 2 of you shared. I think you should call him and ask him exactly what he is thinking. I know it will be difficult, but if he says he is happy, tell him you wish the best for him then..If he says he misses you and wants to be with you, would you be willing to relocate? I think you need to think about the whole situation and go from there. I know you wanted guys opinions, but I wish the best for you. Id say he is probably doing it out of confusion and lonliness. My boyfriend got so sick of us arguing that he went out with someone else for a month, but the truth was, he missed "us" the whole time. He was just doing what he thought was best considering the circumstances.
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