Me and my girl had broken up about a month ago, but we have still been seeing each other and doing every thing we were doing before we broke up . She doesn't want to get together because she says she not ready . She is talking to other guys, seeing them and no telling what else . I really not sure . Me on the other hand I'm not talking to anyone or seeing them . It's like I'm holding on to what we had because in my heart I don't want anyone else . She saying we can get back together when she's ready, but I don't know if that is really what she wants . How could like draw her back in wanting me again ?
I think she is not ready . I think she is interested in you but did you push her to do stuff . I think she want a guy who can be her friend first . You see she talk to other guys because they might be comfortable . Just act nice to her don't do anything like jerk does it'll turn her off tell her how you feel and she'll probably understand you more
Ifs she's postponing it, and seeing other guys then it could mean that she's not actually wanting to do that . She has said she's not ready, but she seeing other guys . Its also not very fair on you as you are clearly trying to get back with her . I think that this situation is really up to her . I think that if she doesn't want to be with you, then there's not much you can do about it . That's really the problem with exes . But if she does want to be with you then good luck to you and I hope it works out . But I think in the short term, you should wait and see what happens . But you can't be waiting all the time .
I think that you need to just ask yourself is this situation something that I can handle? If you answer no then it is time for you to move on and start the healing process. If having casual sex with her, and hanging out is something that you can handle then it is up to you to continue with it. It sounds to me like she wants to experience other things and doesn't want to be tied down to you. To be honest with you this is how a girl split up from me. She said that she wasn't into a relationship right now, and she just slowly started cutting her time with me until there was no more time to cut. If I was you I would move on, this doesn't sound like it is going to turn into a healthy relationship any time soon.