Have You Ever Done Something To Get Back At Ex After Breakup?

So she's doing something behind her families back? and her family doesn't know about it? - but you are worried that if you tell the family she will get in trouble (what is it that she's doing that is so horrible if you don't mind sharing)

I mean what she's doing-is it like bad? illegal? Is there someone in the family you can talk to aside from the parents? like sisters brothers or like cousins? if so talk to them --tell them this is what's up with your girlfriend or ex or whatever you and her status maybe ask them to keep a secret and then you and that family member can pull her to the side and have a chat with her. and let her know that it's concerning for you to see her do something that's wrong.

Or you can sincerely via e-mail, text or call her and tell her your concern, tell her you care and go from there?

And have I ever revealed something about my ex to get back with them? -my answer : no but that's the best advice I can give at the moment --hope it helps?

Don't tell her parents because that would make her hate you even more. What I think is really sweet is when a guy shows me that he cares for me. I would tell her that you're worried about her and see where things go from there. the worst she can do is say that its none of your buisness which she has pretty much already done by breaking up with you. Take a chance.

no be mature about it. don't say anything.

ha ha... you sound a little salty! Look don't do it...don't tell if it's not out of love or caring or it will come back and bite you in the azz! The best way to get back at an ex is to move on and look better and succeed, that way they feel foolish. Besides, you will sound like a total idiot and they most likely will not believe you anyway. Is she using drugs or stripping? It sounds like something like that. If she's using drugs, you can attempt an intervention.

What can you do...nothing but move on. So she was cold and mean, some people are just like that, if it's not in your character then don't become the same way or do something out of hate. unless ha ha it's FUNNY!

Like my X cheated on me and I previously hacked all of his accounts to find out. Then I changed all of his passwords and his password on his voice mail. He called me a B**ch and told me to change it back, I just laughed and told him he better learn how to play nice. He called me a B**ch again and I just hung up.

Later he called back and asked me politely and I told him that was better but if he wanted his passcodes he should make an apology for calling me a B and then I hung up again LOL! He called a bunch of times and then finally when he apologized I gave him 1 passcode of my choice LOL! bwaaa ha ha ha! Literally there were like 20 calls to apologize for everything that he did in a nice way before he got half of his passwords. And that's how I got him back!

I saw him earlier this year and he just chuckled at how I changed all his codes and he didn't even know I had them. He said he learned some valuable lessons but it took him a while to learn that he couldn't just treat me that way. He's still apologizing after 2 years. LOL KRL!

you had your chance to speak up to help her or help her family help her. now if you get involved you're just putting focus on yourself that could get ugly.

i really wanted to knee him in the balls (after all the lying and cheating) but restrained those urges for obvious reasons! haha now (3 months later) I just realize that I'm MUCH MUCH better off without him, can do MUCH better than him and am loving my life. It was hard, I'll admit it, but I can honestly say that I'm a different/stronger person. so thanks to him for being a douchebag and making me a better person! (I also learned that a LOT of people in our class don't like him. haha...that made me feel better!)

No of course you shouldn't. That is just low. have some respect for yourself and for your own relationships. No girl will ever trust you or date you if she knows that is how you reacted to your last girlfriend. No decent guy would do that. Be a decent guy.

Honestly no. Living well is the best revenge. I've thought about it but I would rather not recieve the bad karma by going out and purposely doing something to harm them.

For your situation you need to be mature. Sorry but everything does not work out the way you want it to. Why are you trying to mess up the girl's life because she didn't want to get back together with you? If you do it will only come back on you...things people do always catch up with them. It's not like she cheated or gave you incurable STD. Most relationships don't work out anyway, are you going to be a dickhead and seek revenge after every ex girlfriend because you felt she was cold and uncaring to you? Ask yourself if you were 100% perfect in that relationship. You wouldn't like it if she took revenge after she felt slighted. Just don't do it, it's not worth it. Don't be THAT GUY lol be the man who was mature enough to move on and go forth for better things.

If you want to confirm her (and all of her friends) in the belief that dumping you was exactly the right thing to do, then go ahead. You'll end up looking vindictive, angry and immature.

do it.. why not.. I'm in that jam to.. mines was being cold and told me she slept with a girl.. so I sent her a picture of me laying next to another girl...and that's part of the reson I can't get back with her...

Breaking up "right" is all about being the better person and not doing crap like that.

I stripped for her sisters and had sex with one of them that night. I drove up to her city that weekend just to get back at her while she was away doing whatever, probably some old guy. Then when she found out the next morning she tried to call me and I just let it ring. Hilarious times.