How do I get my ex-boyfriend back?

It sounds to me like your needs aren't being met with "Mr. Right Now. " Don't ever sell yourself short hunny! Remember when you said no to dating? You probably meant it. After all, you've dedicated 6 years of your life to this guy, at some point does it not have to move forward? The guy is completely sending you mixed signals with the calls and the texts. I think that you should really consider why you want him back in your life? Its acceptable to be hurt and lonely. After all its difficult to adjust to a change after spending such a long time with one person. Your used to having someone there. Don't feel bad we've all been there doll. But unless you are willing to compromise your needs just to keep this guy around, he's not worth the trouble of getting back together with. And hey you never know, with some distance he may come crawling back to you. But then I would still reconsider why I should. I think that just by asking us, it shows that you really care for this guy, but he doesn't have to be the last guy you care about. Just because your letting go, doesn't mean you don't love somebody. It just means that you have to put your own self worth and health first. Someone once said, "Some people believe that holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength, however, there are times when it takes far more strength just to let go"

I hope you really figure out what's best for yourself, whatever that decision may be. Your happiness comes first. Good luck.

Mango