My boyfriend came over the other night to spend the night as well. We ate dinner and watched a movie together, made out had sex on the couch, then cuddled. Then he told me that I should get some sleep and that I should go to my room and he would sleep on the couch. I thought that it was odd that he would tell me to do that. I don't have cable so its not like he needed some hands on masturbating time. I don't think its another girl because he would have just up and left. I am worried that maybe he is into something-like drugs or something. He wouldn't tell me anything. any advice ?
Maybe he feels like sleeping together all night is more than just sex. Maybe he sees it as a level of intimacy he's not ready for or thinks your not ready for. Maybe he wants to appear casual not desperate or clingy.
Might be that he did want to masturbate -- probably doesn't need cable for that if you cuddled. It probably isn't drugs. Maybe he just thought you needed sleep and he wasn't ready to go to bed yet and he didn't want to wake you up or be too hot sleeping with you. Maybe you snore or he snores. It was always hard for me to sleep in the same bed as someone else until I got used to it, which took a long time.
I think it's weird too. He came over to stay at your house, why the hell would he sleep in another room? I doubt it's drugs. Why would drugs make him wanna sleep without you. Maybe he is losing interest or something and that is his way of keeping a little bit of distance. It's hard to say why, but I do think it is weird. You're just going to have to ask him. The other reasons people gave don't make sense to me. If he wanted to sleep alone, if he wanted alone time then why did he come over?
Thank u!! I wonder that it may be drugs because he never sleeps through a night. without waking up He acts off- sometimes and one time I noticed his pupils were dialated. - A month ago
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Maybe he just has insomnia. My fiance has it and sometimes there are nights when I'll wake up at 3 in the morning and he is still just laying there, hasn't been able to fall asleep yet. And sometimes he'll get up and walk around the house because he gets antsy and doesn't wanna wake me. Could this also be your Boyfriend problem? You should ask him about it. If tthat's the case try melatonin, it's totally natural and helps a lot of people. Maybe he just has large pupils or his eyes were being funky. I - A month ago
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Think if he was doing drugs you would know about it. My fiance actually has large pupils. So much so that he can't even get laser eye surgery. Well he could, but they told him he's not a good candidate for it. That's weird, maybe the pupil thing is somehow related to the insomnia. I don't think it's anything major with your man, I'm sure he could give you an explanation. It is weird though. But I doubt it's something major like drugs. - A month ago
hey:) I think there is nothing to be worried about - as you said, its unlikely he wants to do more masturbation or get up to another girl - to me its just as unlikely that he's doing drugs or there is something that worth worrying about, or else why would he risk doing so in your living room(?) whilst you are just in the other room.
You know people need time alone - not just for masturbation, drug or another woman / guy.
We spend 3 days a week togther- he has plenty of alone time - A month ago
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But you know "mood" is a strange thing, we cannot decide when we need time alone or when we feel horny according to our daily schedule. "Mood" just happens. If you feel worried ( I know how good the women's instinct is), just ask him, directly, in a more joking way. And don't make it too serious, as if you are cranky or something - A month ago
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