well me and this guy was dating for about a year until things got bad.. my parents didn't like him so we broke up... since the breakup he got a girlfriend but he texts me all the time and constantly says he loves me and never wanted to breakup with me. I don't know how to tell him that there is no chance of us getting back together... by the way he lives pretty far away and insists that I'm the one and that he just wants me happy.. plz help
Question is, do you like him? If not than why waste your time? Tell him the feelings aren't mutual, and that he knows what happens with your parents so it's pointless to try. If he says he loves you, and has a girlfriend - It's stupid to want him anyways. He's being unfaithful to his own girlfriend, he won't treat you any better no matter how much you think he would.
If you DO want him back, than wait a while and see how he reacts later on.. But don't wait too long because he might not want you back if you randomly tell him you want him.
It's best for the both of you to just move on. He has a Girlfriend right now he should be concentrating on, not emotionally cheating on her with you in text messages. Tell him this and then stop replaying to his messages because you're just enabling his behavior and giving him license to keep dragging you along the same painful path. You need to make a clean break or you'll never get over him.
I think you need to be crystal clear on your intentions. Be direct and be aggressive. It sounds harsh but with guys like this (from the impression you've given) you need to be direct. I understand you don't want to offend him but in the long run you're doing him a favor. Use what you've just told me.
"I'm not interested in having a relationship with you, not now, not ever agen".
Thnx I understand exactly what I have to do but I think ways stopping me I that he was my first love and I'm sure yu understand how hard that is... - A month ago
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I understand. I spent 3years in a relationship with my childhood best friend of 11years previous. I was forced to be aggressively direct. I felt like dirt for doing it but it was all about what was best for her. I didn't have it in me to drag her along any longer (even if she deserved it).
I still remember exactly what I said to her when she called me the one night. I want nothing to do with you, stop calling. I didn't wait for a reply; I just hung up the phone after. - A month ago
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