Why doesn't she want me any more?

it doesn't mean she doesn't want you there are reasons to why she is acting like that. it is wrong but ask her and then just decide how much crap you gonna take. if you want email me maybe i can help

Hmmm. How did she act last week, on your birthday, when you were together? At that time, when you were last together, did you ask her, face-to-face, about her recent behavior, and why she has been pushing you away? Did she just say again that she's "busy, and wants to hang out with her friends"? If so, it seems like there is not much point in asking her the same questions again, right? She is not being nice about this, but she is nonetheless sending you a clear message -- she doesn't want to see you right now. Why? Who knows? Begging and acting all desperate will probably make things worse, not better. Best to leave her alone for a week or two or three or four, and go hang out with your own friends. Then, maybe after a month or so, if she doesn't contact you, you might call her back and see what's up. But don't hold your breath -- it really sounds like she is headed in a different direction, for whatever reason. Remember, it's her, not you. Don't blame yourself. Instead, be strong, and start thinking about building new relationships with new people. Good luck!

This Sucks! Sorry that she has been distant. All that I can say that comes to mind, it may not be what you want to hear but some people grow together, some grow apart. Its not fun to hear the truth, but remember there are plenty of women out there and it may take time but when you aren't looking for it is when it happens! Good Luck, and remember what doest kill you makes you stronger!

It could be anything really. Maybe she needs to find herself again, and needs space to do so. Worse case scenario, she's cheating, but don't jump to that conclusion just yet. Before you go racking your brain with all these possibilities, sit her down and talk to her. Tell her how you're feeling, that you love her and miss the way things used to be. Ask her how she feels about you, honestly. Stay calm, understanding, and rational no matter what she says. It's one of those hope for the best, prepare for the worst situations hun. I hope that everything works out for you.

The answer is simple. Ask her. Tell her that you feel she has been avoiding you. Ask her why she has been avoiding you. Ask her if she really wants this relationship as much as you do. All you really have to do is communicate your feelings to her and work out this issue with her. So find some time to just pull her to the side and talk to her. She needs to know how you feel about this situation, because it is totally unfair for you to not know the reasons behind why she is acting the way she is. The answer lies with her and hopefully by talking it out with her you will find a solution to these problems you are having with her.

Maybe you should suggest taking a break. Sometimes if you are with someone for a long period of time all you need is a break to figure out just how much they mean to you and how much you miss their presence in your life
or you could whisk her away to some place familiar where the two of you can be alone and tell her how you feel, be honest and open with her, let her know that the distance is bothering you and that you'd like to know what's really going on and what you can do to fix it. Hopefully she'll return the favor and be open and honest with you and if she's not all you can do is try again at another time.

I just went through that same exact thing three months ago. He ended up leaving me. The only thing he said is that he loves me but doesn't feel that bond with me any more. Try focusing more on stuff that you enjoy individually. Reconnect with friends or introduce a new hobby. This might help her to see the distance that has came between you two. She might be trying to hold on to her independence. I hope it works out a lot better for you than it did with me.

I hate to tell you this, but for whatever reason, she's moved on. She's probably seeing someone else, but isn't telling you. This happened to me about 15 years ago. Same scenario...she's always busy with friends, but it turned out one of the friends was much more than that. After much anguish, I moved on and she married the guy she started seeing then. It turned out to be the best thing for me. I don't know about her, and I don't care at this point. I'm now happily-married to someone else. Just a speed-bump.