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Why does my ex boyfriend text me when I have a boyfriend..and he has a girlfirend?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago and he still texts me some times. He used to text me everyday but I was usually with my new boyfriend and one time he saw that he texted me and got mad. so now the only times he texts me is on weekends usually at about 1 or 2 in the morning... Then he was begging me to sneak out with him one night and I kept telling him that it was wrong because we were both going out with someone.. I don't understnad why he texts me. When we went out he treated me like sh*t so I broke up with him. Why does he text me?


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mshaker
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mshaker      When: 7 days ago
Cause he loves you.. That's why, he's realized what you mean to him. And you mean the world to him. I suggest you work things out.
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therockcomic
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therockcomic      When: A month ago
he probably regrets his actions and wants you back
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lenaejw
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lenaejw      When: A month ago
because he wants your ying yang girl don't be fooled okay he feels like no other man is gonna do her better than me so I'm going to try to get back with her and leave her stranded. he is just using you girl move on continue to be with the person that makes you happy and kick him to the curb I mean that's why you are not with him right if he was so good in which he is not he would of got it right the first time be happy.
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whoppers12
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whoppers12      When: A month ago
yes very good point but don't go back forget him same thing is happening to me now I was on and off with a guy for a 4 years until this day he still wants to hang out and say he loves me when he was with me he treated me like crap and cheated all the time until I couldn't take it,
sooo just don't ever talk to him
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kellyster
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kellyster      When: A month ago
because he misses u. he realizing what he lost. but to keep her relationship safe with your bf, tell your ex that "i don't think we should talk anymore" because he definately wants you back
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nolechick31
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nolechick31      When: A month ago
Wow-- I just got out of this exact situation. I wish I could tell you that things like this stop, but I'm 26 and my ex is 34. lol. My ex and I broke up because he cheated on me. When we were together, he was great, when he wanted to be, otherwise he treated me pretty crappy. He would tell me all the time that I wasn't a "10", but that I looked good for what I was (could be taken as good or bad, depending on how you look at it). One semester, I got laszy with the physical activity and gained about seven pounds and he flat out told me I was getting fat and that if I didn't loose the weight, he was going to dump me because he looked good and he needed someone that looked good too. The list goes on and on. Well he found his "10" and cheated on me with her, and we broke up. In the weeks that followed, he was calling and texting me all day long to "talk", mainly because him and this chick start fighting because she had been treating him like crap (go figure). About three months later, I started dating someone new and he and this chick were still together, but he kept calling me and texting me telling me that he missed all these things about me and that he didn't see it before. He wanted me to come see him, and I said no because I was dating someone new. To this day, he will still text me and tell me that he loves me, misses me, and wants me to come see him (he and this girl have since broken up). He tells me it took everything that happened for him to realize that he loved me and how much he wanted me and that he will do anything to have me back in his life forever. More than likely, your ex realizes the same thing- you aren't like his new girlfriend and he misses those differences between you and her and it finally hit him what he lost.
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smellylittlecat
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smellylittlecat      When: A month ago
I agree with therockcomic that he probably misses you and regrets losing you to your new bf. He is probably using the new girlfriend to fill in the missing person (you). That or he wants to stay friends with you still... or if you have done 'it' yet, he wants to have sex with you still. I don't know him or what he tells you, but if you are in a happy relationship with your new boy, don't mess it up. Someone will get hurt and the only person to be hurting right now should be your ex because he treated you poorly while you were together which most likely caused your break up. If you do want him back for some reason, then you would definitely have to break it up with the new boy. Good luck!
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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: A month ago
Really not trying to rhyme but... Your X sends the late night TeXt for SEX!. Come on, do you really have to ask that question? He just wants to catch you at a vulnerable time. Just turn your phone off when you go to bed. If you're at home with your parents/siblings then there's not really a reason for your phone to be on anyway. He's a Loser and you know what I say to LOSERS . kickrockslosers!
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Question Asker Yeah, but the thing is whenever I do text him back he just wants to talk about random ass sh*t.. or tells me something really random.. - A month ago
Answerer So why do you believe he wants u2 come out at 1:00 a.m.? I forgot that you are under 18 so please forgive my bluntness earlier...maybe he just wants to eat some french fries& sip sodas w/U@ the 24 hour McDonalds?? Really? ok I'm a little sarcastic but you have a boyfriend & the X wouldn't be texting you like that if ur boyfriend knew...so your Boyfriend doesn't know, his Girlfriend doesn't know & you're still checking 4 your X. Just be honest & say you want him back&that's why you're entertaining him!McSeriously - A month ago
 
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