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How to get my ex back without seeming desperate

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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ok so my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago but I'm pretty sure she likes me again now...the thing is I still like her but how can I ask her out without seeming desperate...or would it be best to wait for her to make the first move or ask me out


Update: any other input would be appreciated :)    A month ago

Update: alright well the other night I texted her telling her how I still have feelings for her and wanted to try and get back together...to quote her she said "i miss you. a lot. and still have feeling for you. but I'm scared its gonna be the same as last time"    A month ago

Update: in which I replied "why can't we talk about what went wrong last time and see if we can change it" which she responded "we can talk about it and stuff but I don't think I want to jump into anything right now"...what does this mean? will she ever wanna?    A month ago

Update: well I think I probably messed up any hope. last night I was pretty high and usually it doesn't make me do stuff like this but I texted her saying that I missed her...she responded please don't do that...im assuming that's not good. right?    A month ago

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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: A month ago
Just, get some new clothes, change your hair and ignore her and hang out with all of the hot girls you can find. Just be seen with them and she will go crazy. Eventually she won't be able to take it and say something to you first. You sure you want her back? LOL
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Question Asker She im'd me for the first time 2 weeks ago and she asked me if I still hated her (because after we broke up I told her not to talk to me again) and if I still wanted nothing to do with her. she also told me that she misses me. but since that conversation on aim 2 weeks ago(other then once when I asked her why we broke up and she said because she was incompetent) we've just had normal conversations about nothing really...so maybe she doesn't even want me back - A month ago
Question Asker P.s. thanks for the input! :) - A month ago

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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: A month ago
uh... don't get high and where were your friends because friends don't let friends text X's? You need to occupy yourself with some other girls. Getting high and texting the X is not ever good. Doesn't sound like she's interested...until... until you find the hottest girl around, then you can make your X insanely jealous, even better a slutty girl and treat the slutty girl x-tra nice but don't 'do' the slutty girl just let your X see you with her hanging out. Your X will go insane and hate her and want you back just so she can't have you. Oh well try it and see what happens but no more TWH (Texting while high)...bad idea KRL
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CountDove
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CountDove      When: 13 hours ago
You need to talk to her and be straightforward. Talk about it in a logical, civilized manner. What caused your breakup? Discuss the issue, and if the original problem has been solved or is being solved, then ask her what she thinks. Talk and see if it is in your best interest together.


-Count D.
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jimmajam
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jimmajam      When: A month ago
I'd keep doing whatever you're doing that made her come back and be interested. String her on a little bit, getting closer and closer to making it official. When you get close enough it doesn't matter who makes the move because it's pretty much already done.
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MrDork22
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MrDork22      When: A month ago
Dont have her ask you out dude
it is the man who asks the woman out not the other way around

and just do it like 4 days after the break up
but in those other 3 days flirt with her and give her hints that you still are into her

that is what I would do

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Question Asker Sorry but I'm not really sure what you mean - A month ago
 
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