Is it possible to get her back?

it sounds like you really hurt her... but telling her was the right thing to do so points there.
Give her some time to think things through.. even though she said she was goign to forget about you I know I won't happen.. she is just hurt that's all. she probably really loved you and..you get the point so I will shut up lol.

But give her time like a couple of weeks to think, all that time she will be thinking of you no matter what she says.
Then try somethng along the lines of:

I know what I did was stupid, and I know I hurt you. but I miss you so much, I miss spending time with you and hearing your voice (or something you miss). I know you can't trust me anymore but I really love you and I will do whatever it takes to win you back. your the best thing that's happend to me and I really want a second chance. please"

Good luck. hope you get her back!

i think that you can get a chance but it will be hard to get her to trust you ever again. there are ways you can prove that. try talking to her and have her fall in love all over again. and let her noe that you won't give up on her fight for her and soon she will realize that she has a good man by her side. and just don't bring that mistake up bacause if you do she wil keep on remembering over and over.

Yuah I hav3 t0 agree with th3 s3c answ3r...at l3ast y0u feel guilty of what you did.

I think she's not giving you a chance for what you did but because of maybe distance, because I don't believe in long distant relationships, you we're drunk dint kno wah you we're doing until you did and you kno it was wrong so that a plus

I think if you going back to LA then if she doesn't kno that your coming the best way to sorprise her would be to just show up with some flowers and since its your annie then after just go on a that dinner or something

Since your one year anniversary is coming up, a nice gift, along with flowers, may help you win her back. A necklace is always a nice choice. :)

I can understand her reaction, I probably would have done the same thing! She may just need sometime to think about this. Hopefully she will realize that you made a mistake,like all people do, and that you truly do love her.

I hope it all works out in the end. Good luck!

You should feel horrible and guilty. At least you feel that much..

from my point of view...i think she is so hurt that she hates you right now but loves you all the same. You can try to get her back..I'm sure she isn't expecting you to arrive in LA. It has the potential to get messy though and her to get angry that you even came...or it might show her how bad you feel and how much you care for her. Either way you have to think about how IF she takes you back she might forgive but she will NEVER forget. Trust. ITS GONE. not coming back. She will bring it up constantly. She'll use your screw up against you with I'm sure most arguments/fights.There's a potential that at times shell be cold and distant because shell think of what you did. As much as you love her...if you really respected her the way you say you do you wouldn't have let the situation happen in the first place. drunk is no excuse. Sometimes I'm wasted and blackout but its never a thought in my mind to end up with anyone other than my boyfriend. I think the best thing to do is apologize, admit your mistake and let her go as hard as it is. trust me I know how hard it is. I think that it will only get more messy and more problems for the both of you if you do wind up getting back together.
I wish you luck!

Yeah if you fly down and visit her with flowers while wearing a suit, I can almost say for certain that she will *deeply* concider taking you back. You sound so sincere, like you really love her. If you show her you love her, then she will probably want you back. From what you have said, it seems like she is so in love with you too, so if you put forth extra effort she will hopefully take you back. Good luck!

my honest answer would be do whatever it takes to get her back, I know she loves you no matter what you did. But you hurt her deeply, why would you even do anything like that with someone? that's so wrong man. Even though she says "she'll go to parties and meet guys nd forget you" believe me she wont, that's her way of relieving herself in trying to forget you. My best answer is get her back, go everywhere she goes, call her cell, txt her.. go to her job, buy her flowers..if I was guy nd did that my girlfriend I would stalk her no matter what. I hope she takes you back, you love her and I can see that. Good luck buddy.

Hi, I have read your question thoroughly, I do understand how she is feeling, but it sounds like you really miss her, love her, and truly realize and am sorry about what you did. it sounds like she still loves you because she is trying to convince herself you were a mistake and she doesn't love you, but if she doesn't love you, she wouldn't have to convince herself, I know what its like to be hurt by a guy so I wish I could just say she won't get back with you, but I also know that even when you still love somone you want to be with them no matter how bad they hurt you, but you just can't let them in, or accept them back for a while because you are afraid of getting hurt again. so I think all you can do is keep telling her how sorry you are, how much you like her, and tell her you know you were a jerk for what you did, and just let her know you are going to keep trying and not going to date, kiss, or do anything with anyother girl until she wants you back. but if she, after manny times trying to get her back, keeps saying no, or there has been no progress in your relationship, than the best thing to do would be to let her go and let her move on with her life, and you will have to try your hardest to do the same, but always let your last word be I love you, and you have to show her your always there for her, and will fight your hardest for her... and no other girls in the mean time!

well..i will say anthing we are doing must be in love of GOD and we don't need any weakness faith cause that's very important and we need to follow GOD laws always. ok GOD BLESSED YOU.