My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. She told me that she wasn't sure if she really loved me any more. I have always loved her, even to this day. She told me the we might get back together, but she can't decide between me and a older guy. I believe she said that I am too nice, and the older guy is kinda like her. After the break up, I have noticed that I am changing in personality. I am still my old self, but I am being more aggressive. Not aggressive as in hitting everything, but as in telling people that its my way or the high way. We both have sexual needs, so we have been having sex. Not every day, just once in awhile. Each time, we do use protection. I hurts to think that we are not together anymore. I think that she is liking the fact that I am changing. She likes to be dominated, at times. Last night she said that I was boring, cause she thought she knew everything about me. I told her that she was wrong. I call her once or twice a day, and she thinks that I am clingy. I don't think that I am.
What can I do to show her that I think we are meant to be together?
She calls me stupid at times, when we are together. What did I miss, like she's trying to tell me something. I am thick headed, and need help. I know she's trying to tell me something, with out saying it. If I think she means one thing, but instead she means something completely different. How will I know?
Babe, if you see this, please answer too. Doesn't have to be here.
Update: Also, I tend to type before I think. Don't think that she's a bad person. I just type with out thinking. She is really awesome, that is why I want to be with her.
5 months ago
She is just being very fickle and if she can't decide between you and the other guy, then you shouldn't wait for her to choose you. Move on. I know it is harder to do than said but she seems to be using you when she wants you, but throws you to the curb when she feels that you are boring her. The thing is she is probably falling out of love with you and that is the reality, which I know is probably very very hard to face but the thing is when you love someone you never really question if you really do love them you just know you do and that you want to be with them. For your situation she is questioning her love for you, and is now deciding between you and the other guy, if she really loved you then you wouldn't be second to another guy. I think you deserve better and to you she may be this "better" but if she can't make up her mind soon then it really is time to move on because it isn't fair for you to be holding up your love life for someone who clearly is not going to be in it for very long.
Well if she liked you and wanted to get back with you she wouldn't call you stupid. And if she can't decide between you and another guy then she isn't the one for you and you need to move on. And another might be that she knows she can have you. And maybe she wants you to play hard to get. Maybe try that and if she doesn't bite then you should move on. Good luck! :)
Bro I know how you feel but your only setting your self up for some heart break. Look for someone who likes you for you. It's one thing to change but don't change your core for anyone.
I am sort of in the same problem as you are, just not the sex part. But with some help from here and deep thoughts, I realize don't wait for her, move on someone better will come even if it seems impossible right now. Listen to what those girls say, they are right.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I don't really use pickup lines that much...don't need them...i just ask a simple question about a situation....or just start a conversation with them right off the bat
How do they typically respond?
Most of them want to talk to me actually...a lot....and one girl said "i am very impressed...most guys don't have the stones to do what you just did, thank you"...and we talked deeply about different things the rest of the night...i got the number...called 2 days later...got a date...and all was good...what you think?
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When: 5 months ago
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