My ex recently broke up with me. Everything was going perfectly fine and it was right before easter weekend, when I kissed him on the cheek(he had been dying for the lips, but he acted all cute and stupid like) the next time I saw him, he dumped me. He wasn't a jerk in the relationship at all, and he never told me why he dumped me. Lately I've been trying to convince myself that I like other guys so I keep my mind off of him, but it doesn't exactly work. What are some good ways to get over him?
Update: I will not lie, I'm still deeply in love. I care about him more than anything. I really want him back, but I know he doesn't want me back. Can I make him jealous? Would that work? I don't know. But I really don't want to love him so much. Help? ='[
5 months ago
wow! I'm in the same situation. but I don't want to be. everything was going good with my ex and I and then one day he broke up with me. and like you I am still in love with him. but I think the only way you can actually get over him is to realize that there is problem and deal with it. don't run from it because that is only going to make it harder on you. remeber: THE MORE YOU HIDE YOUR FEELINGS THE MORE THEY SHOW. THE MORE YOU SUPRESS THEM, THE MORE THEY GROW. I know it sounds cliche to say that all you need is time, but it's true. time heals all wounds, outside and in. when someone wants to walk out of your life, you have no other choice but to let them go. maybe he was only in your life to teach you that there is a such thing as true love. now that you have learned your lesson, forgive him and yourself and focus on the person that really matters most in this situation.YOU. ttyl.
Im going through the same sort of problem. Really people will say get over it, but you cant, people will tell you 2 b friends w? Him. And hell no you can't. I have just been lately sort of trying to make my ex jealous, but really time is the only way that is even barely working for me. Its been 6 weeks today (yes I count. ) lol but time, friends, and anything no matter how drastic that can keep you from thinking about him for even a few minutes is a must! Good luck!
My advice, talk to him, the reason you can't get over him is because maybe you still like him, or you might just need to know why he dumped you. And not all guys are the same, most people think they won't talk about that kinda stuff, but actually my boyfriend talked to me about me liking him before he asked me out, and he didn't do it right away. You might not see how that relates to this, but it does. Trust me, just talk to him ok?
I talk to him all the time. On myspace. But it hurts to talk to him. It REALLY hurts. He never even looks at me when we're in the hallways either. But if I talk to him, ill start crying because BAM! The feelings start ramming my head with sludgehammers, =[ - 5 months ago
Well, there's ice cream and there's chocolate -- those always help! But if I were you I'd mostly focus on wearing cute outfits and smiling in the halls whenever attractive guys walk by. The quickest way to get over an ex is to upgrade to a better boyfriend. Good luck!
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