He's moved on already!!! Please help me :(

Because you were both drunk and stupid. That's about it. Now you have learned not to get smashed and have sex with guys.

if he dumped you after 3 weeks and got another girl...he was not ever into you.

Why don't you go study for the SAT and stop boozing and screwing guys downtown. Ho bag.

We blame others to help our ego's from being bruised, but this only continues to imprison us in our own disempowering drama driven emotional highs and lows... and it's addictive.

Take responsibility for your own actions ("maybe I slept with him without knowing his situation because I was desperately trying to get him back...") and you'll feel empowered to let go and move on.

I wish you well,
~ Robby

stop sleeping with him. it's not going to change everything like you think it will. sex to him is sex. sex to you means he's interested. he's not.

stop drinking alcohol if u're really under the age of 21.

guys who are really committed to you will say "i do" before they ask you to do anything. remember that. it'll make all the difference.

Some say "In vino veritas".
But booze only removes the rationality that sets us humans apart from the animals.

>"it was like we didn't even break up"
No it wasn't; he was drunk.

If he says things when drunk which differ from what he says when he's sober, does this make him a drunk and a liar?

I, unfortunately, have much experience with drinking and lying. That's the reason it's a hot button with me.

I hope this helps.
Ted

this sounds really bad. not unfamiliar though... look I hate to break it to you, but many guys are assholes. From what I heard from you, he just wants to use both of you, this way he gets 2 girls you know what I mean? I would say you should end it as well. Ignore his calls or approaches etc..

this will make your social life easier and you will meet someone else that's for sure. So forget this douchebag and move on. Really, I doubt he has feelings for you if he broke up and so soon after is going out with someone else. so forget him. good luck!

ok I've been through the exact same thing 5months ago..i was so heartbroken over it,i taught I would get over it.my whole life had ended to me..i know how you feel and the only way I got over it was when I started going out with my friends clubbing every weekend..i started to meet other men and started to enjoy it and it made me realise that I didn't deserve what he was doin to me..he was callin me up sayin he missed me,the same as you and it was just for sex..in the end I just stopped replyin to his calls and texts and within a week,he was textin me constantly,wantin to meet up for sex..but I knew I was worth more than that so I just text him and told him we can be just friends..he still texts me for the same ting but I just keep sayin no..can you see wats happening here girl?men only want what the can't have so losing contact with him means if he wants u,he will do all the runninng but in my case,my ex just came for sex..so this is how you find out what you mean to him.hope you undersand,gudluck!

He's rebounding from you with another girl. That means he's trying to get over you but still wants to be in the comfort of a relationship. Usually these things don't last, but sometimes they do, like it did with you.

Regardless, as hard as it might be you need to move on because he's just not interested anymore.
I know I sound harsh, but I know from experience that with the way he's acting, he doesn't want you to be a majour part of his life anymore. I'm sorry...

But it's his loss, right? He dumped you, now the best thing you can do is find some kind of hobby and show him you can live happy without him. That will really get to him!

Guys are asshole . he obviously doesn't deserve you . I don't know if you want him back or what the case is . but he is using you . and he's telling you he misses you but he only wants to have sex with you . if he misses you or still liked you he wouldn't be doing this sh*t and he has a girl ? I'm not gonna tell you get over him because you can't just get over him people are stupid for saying that . but you need to realize you can do better . go out and have fun .

There is no point trying to figure out what you meant to him and what this new girl means to him unless the point is to make yourself feel worse. You guys are not even 18 yet. I think what he did is pretty bad as he disrespected you and this new girl both, but as far as what some young guy thinks about any girl in his life, well, they think more with their d**k than they do with their brain at that age.

Move on and avoid him at all costs. He's a train wreck at this point in his life and he will only mess you up if you keep seeing him.

He has officially achieved douche bag status. He doesn't know what he wants and he apparently has no problem using girls as he sees fit. I think your best course of action is to avoid him and cease all contact. Hooking up with him and interactions with him are only going to exacerbate your pain. It will be difficult but you need a fresh start. He cannot offer you anything but mind games and flip flopping back and forth. If you want to heal and move forward then I recommend you try doing this. He is a lost cause.