My boyfriend dumped me after 9 months and said he felt like I deserved better. We got back together 6 days later, and then 2 weeks later, he dumped me again. The first time I was totally blindsided, but the second time I could kind of feel something coming, but I thought it was just going to be a fight. He said he didn't think we had enough in common( totally bogus, we do all the same activities, sports, and share a lot in common) and he said he loved me but only as a friend now.
Now, almost 6 weeks later, after noticing him staring at me, and him sort of trying to make small talk, we were both at a party. We were alone in the house for a minute, and I cannot be sure, but he leaned back as if to kiss me, I backed up, so he gave me a flirty look, and we continued on our way outside. Later that night, we were sitting next 2 each other during a movie. He started petting my leg, and put his arm around me, and made a few little circles on my back. I let him, because I do really still love him that way, but after when he didn't say goodbye to me, and sort of rushed home, I was like wtf.
That was saturday, now its tuesday night, and he hasn't tried to talk or txt me. We had workout today and he was checking me out. So I don't know what he wants. Were going to be going to the same party next saturday probably, and I want to know what I should do, and what is going through his head!
Update: I would love to get him back. That's the thing. Ways to make him want me?
8 months ago
Honestly is sounds like he wants to breakup but he feels lonely when he does it. He sounds like kind of dick though, cause that's really not fair for you. He likes to know he still love him, but he doesn't want to be with you. Since he doesn't want to date you, you really have to cut him off when he tries to be close or affectionate. Its just going to make it really hard on you if you feed into it. Cause he's being selfish not affectionate.
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