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Should I break up with him?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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i don't know if I should break up with him we've been together for about 3 years and we were planning to get married but every time something bad happen and mess it up
but now I really don't know I'm sick of this situation he is in country and I'm in another and I don't think that I'm gonna see him for the next year at least
he sacrificed so much for me
i really wanna break up but I'm only worried on him
i even promised him that I wouldn't leave him
the longest time we have gone without fighting is 2 weeks
and I haven't seen him for more than 8 months
besides his mom is acting as a bitch with me
but he is not talking with her for what she did on me
i really don't wanna leave him because he really loves me but I really don't know
please help me

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kitty17 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
You guys need to get relationship therapy. Its very useful and will give you both the clarity to see what your relationship is and where its going.
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ApoRiA (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
1. Look at the reasons you guys are fighting. Try to see the pattern in the fights (eg. Is it something you're dissatisfied with him or vice versa? )
2. Take a minute and be honest with your feelings. How much do you feel for him? Why do you feel unhappy around him sometimes so much that you want to break up with him? How is he hurting you?

Now a few words of wisdom:
Infatuation says, We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!

Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.

All the best :)
and feel free to msg me if needed.
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Question Asker Thanx a lot aporia I really dunno what to say you helped me a lot - 4 months ago
Answerer I'm glad :) I'm studying to become a psychologist so I'm happy that I've helped someone already! :D - 4 months ago
 
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