I want to die

Hang in there guy it will be OK. trust. With time your heart will heal. I think a lot of us have been there or at least thought about it your not alone in this. But it's not worth it if she broke-up with you she is not worth you loosing your life. Just take some time and be patient about the decisions you make . Who's to say you two won't get back together. If it's true love you guys will. Don't cut your life away, life is too short as it is. I would talk to somebody , and seek some counseling if you don't want to talk to your parents, because you are afraid of how they are going to react, talk to a guidance counselor or try to find a hot line in your area that deals with this kinds of issue. Please don't do it though life is too precious your gonna make somebody a good husband and father one day.

This happened to me last year, and I tried to kill myself. I missed out on a whole term of school because I had slits up my arms. It took me a while to recover, but I got there. I kept asking myself how my ex could fall in and out of love so quickly but then I just realized he was a tool. All I can suggest is don't attempt suicide over this because I think you can get through it if you try really hard. Talk to your family about it and see a counsellor maybe. Surround yourself with positive people and do things to distract yourself from your ex. I hope things work out.

I understand that you're in a lot of pain right now. I am so sorry to hear that. It is really horrible to go through a break up.

It's only been two days so I can imagine that the pain is very raw right now. I've been broken up with more times than I can remember, so I know what you're going through. Your suicidal thoughts are not exactly foriegn to me but you really need to take a step back from those thoughts.

What I want you to do is remember who you were before you met this girl. There was a "you" before her. What did your pre-girlfriend self like to do? Were you involved in art? Sports? Remember what it was and re-kindle your romance with it. I'm not saying that getting up and doing stuff is suddenly going to make your pain go away but action does have the tendency to soothe the soul. Also, it is helpful (for me) to listen to others talk about their break-ups or read books/watch movies about break-ups. What ends up happening in every case is that the people eventually felt so much better that they were able to laugh again! Other people have been there and are basins of knowledge and advice.

What I recommend you do is write a list of everything you want from life. Maybe your list likes like this: "Travel to Spain, Learn how to surf, Date a Brazilian woman, become a doctor"... by doing that you'll see how rich life is! There is so much to do and so much to learn! There are even more women to love and who will love you back.

By the way, I can pretty much guarantee you that this girl will want you back one day. And guess what? When that day comes you will genuinely not want her back. It will be very liberating.

Please keep us all updated and talk to someone close to you if these suicidal thoughts persist.

Hey snap out of it no one will be dying here. take your mind away from that and give your attention to someone else, there plenty of girls who will be happy to have a guy pay attentiont to them. listen to music that can make you feel better. go fora walk or run, but if you need to you can mop around a lil, but don't get o sad it will pass.

then do so.

BEEN THERE, TRIED THAT...literally, I tried to kill myself because my 9 year relationship ended...I swallowed a bunch of pills, ended up with a tube down my nose into my throat, had to spend the night at a psych ward, embarrassed the hell out of my self, disappointed and worried my friends and family, made people think I was seriously crazy and the kicker is...MY EX DIDN"T EVEN SHOW UP, CALL, or even TEXT me...

When you are dead you are dead a long time...there is no coming back from that...

The only people you are going to hurt are your family and close close friends---everyone else will eventually forget you but those that really truly love you will never forget the pain that you caused by being so selfish...

You are so young...I am 32 and spent my entire adult life with the same guy and now I am slowly but surely dealing with it and moving on...it is taking some time, it has been 8 months, but it is happening...we are built to handle grief, that is how our minds work...we are not meant to be cowards and take the easy way out...we are built to keep on truckin' one way or another no matter how much it hurts...

Did you ever have a broken bone or a cut or anything that hurt before? Well can you actually remember what the pain felt like?...NO...you know that it hurt but you can't really remember how it actually felt all you remember is that it hurt...that is exactly how this is going to turn out... it hurts like hell while it was happening and even for awhile after it happens but one day you won't be able to feel that actual pain anymore you will just know that it hurt...that is because with healing the actual pain goes away...the memory may not but the pain will...I promise you, you will be OK.

Just give it time.. I know what your going through.. but just think about it. its only been a few days. Hang out with your friends:) Ending your life for someone is stupid. and being sad or depressed about it won't help. Do the things that love and keep yourself busy to take your mind off it. and DONT contact her or show any intressed. If you do it will give her the satisfaction.

You will get through this.

FAREAL TO BE HONEST WITH YOU I MEAN I KNOW ITS ONLY BEEN 2 DAYS,BUT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LET LIFE PLAY OUT ITSELF...THE SAME WAY YOU THINKING BOUT HER SHE IS DOING THE SAME THING TRUST ME YOU GUYS WILL GET BACK TOGETHER...A BREAK-UP DOES NOT MEAN FOREVER ITS TEMP OST OF THE TIME I WOULDNT LET IT GET TO ME TRUST ME SHE WILL COME AROUND...JUST GIVE IT TIME

Hey there, I understand that this is a hard part of life you are going thru but you must be careful. I know how if feels to love someone and then they stop loving you back but believe me it is not the end of the world. Please, talk to someone because we have all been there but it is not worth ending it all. Believe it or not, you will have other girlfriends, it's just part of the life cycle. Don't be so selfish as to take your life because you are deeply hurt, think about what it will do to your family. It will be okay, I promise! Love & Peace!

yo man, just cool...ive attempted suicide like 12 times, the 1st time I tried I was 16 I am only 19! don't even think like that! I was homeless addicted to drugs and raped!

keep cool bud, everything will work itself out, hell I was sleeping in gutters and now I'm living it up, I got a badass car I graduated highschool and I am in college! I got a girl who might be pregnant, I got friends who have become my family! life is amazing if you just let life happen. just go with the flow until you can move on your own, that's what I did! no one is worth your life, especially someone who broke your heart. just deal with life because suicide is a chain reaction, you kill yourself and someone that loves you will do the same

You don't want to kill yourself, your just ranting. And sadly were reading this.

You know guy, are you aware there are a lot of girls out there who are just looking for a guy like you? On top of that, I can promise you there is a girl out there a whole lot hotter than that one you just separated from...I PROMISE. Right now, she is probably smiling that you are her first dump, her right of passage as a woman. As a man, you need to give her the same treatment. If you see her, I want you to remember this phrase, Don't give the Bitch the Satisfaction.

dude, I'm going through same thing, I tried everything to forget her but nothing helps, it only gets even worse, every time I see some "lovebirds" on the street just holding hands or kissing, I want to throw myself under the speeding car. I lost my sleep cos I can't stop thinking of her and the thing that I lost her. Everything in this life has lost its interest. Every time I stand near my rooms window, I ask myself, what is the point of living without her?, maybe I should just jump and end it all... And you know what is holding me back from doing so, my friend, not the one I have known all my life, I found her just a week ago or so (and it has been 3,5 weeks since my girlfriend left me). I'm afraid that if it wasn't for her I wouldn't be writing this right now, cos I was on the very edge of ending my life, the edge when you already have planned to go tomorrow on the highest bridge you could find and step off of it. And the idea of death is still hunting me. Surely friend can't take the place of your loved one, but at least he/she can help you to get past that horrible,torturing time and help you avoid going stupid things like taking your own life. It doesn't have to be very close friend(but that is also an option), try some online chats or something like that, just try to find someone who you feel is very close to your soul, someone who will listen to you. And for all people who are saying that you are still a kid and simply overreacting(love doesn't have age limits), or that you just need to move on with your life, ignore them, they have never felt the real love, they don't know what it can do to you. Just remember what I told you, at least try it

Adolescents (teenagers) like you experience raging hormones that amplify your feelings. She's not the only fish in the sea and certainly will not be the last girlfriend you'll ever have in your whole life. Couples break up all the time. It's a fact of life like not being able to escape your own death or paying taxes. Grieve an then move on from the experience. It's NOT the end of the world.

Alright forget the asshole that said ur over reacting. But I agree with most of the ladys. I've been there too. To be honest I felt exactly like you did. I really thought that if I can have her then what's the point of this pain, right? No matter how deep a cut may be, or how bruised ur body can be, there is no physical pain that can be that bad. you need to get out though because you don't want to end up like me. since my breakup 2 months ago from a 2 year relationship, I've been diagnosed with anxiety and general depression. You don't want that sh*t. its been tearing me apart inside since. the pain will ease up in a few days. heartbreak sucks, but you know what, you can actually die from being heart broken. No joke, I did a paper on it. Its seriosuly something easier said than done, but go out with ur friends. You will get upset when ur around them but if they were true friends and bros, they would respect you and not be assholes to u. Its something completlley inevitable but its life. just live and learn and they next relationship you have, you will be more experienced.

If she broke up with you.. She's not worth your life.. Trust me. You're pretty young as it is.. You'll find someone else.

If you were really going to kill yourself you'd have already done it. Since you haven't, why not go outside and breath a little fresh air. Too much indoors makes the best of us stir-crazy.

your 16. you haven't even felt true love yet

your overreacting and being a big baby about it.