I really write to much about how things aren't going great. Like always things go well, but as always get bad. We have planned a year to live together, now he is getting a place with his friend and saying I can live with them. Ever since football started he never has time for me. The sad thing is that when he doesn't have practice he won't tell me and calls me that night. A few days ago I didn't see him all day, and he didn't have practice the next day. I didn't know this and he didn't tell me or spend time with me. What's going on? When I ask what's wrong he just says he's tired, but he feels like being with his friends?
Maybe he just needs some space right now, give it to him! Do not push the issue because it will result in a way that you don't want. Just start doing things with your friends separately for a little bit and see if he chases you, if he doesn't, then he isn't worth your time anyways and reading the book " he's just not that into you". It's a really good book, almost empowering. Maybe he got a little scared, like my boyfriend did, and wants to be sure of things before it's gets any more serious
Unfortunately I might have to say that for some reason, he is not wanting to spend as much time as you as he used to be. He has free time, but he's spending it with his mates. Go and ask him to sit down and talk about this. If he's not the type of guy that can do that, I suggest you pull back a little. When he finds that you're not there (asking him as many questions) and you're not around, he will turn back and come find you and ask for you. If he really likes you, you shouldn't have to worry about him not wanting to spend time with you.
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