How do you feel when you found out that your ex deleted you from his/her Facebook / friendster ?

If she hasn't deleted you especially months after the break up then its obvious she doesn't want you out of her life but it could also mean she's keeping you there for emotional support or in case she feels there are no guys out there up to her standards. The day she blocks you on IM and takes you off twitter/Facebook/Myspace is the day when she's not emotionally stuck on you anymore. It's normal to be angry, numb, or depressed when this happens because its obvious you felt something between you two previously. However, sometimes she could be doing this to see if she can find a life without you and if she doesn't find that life then she might end up crawling back. That's when the ball is back in your court. Just don't be the rebound, fallback, or 2nd in her book. Be cautious when making the decision.

It would bother him to some level but melpie you probably won't get the kind of impact that you want or expect nor the satisfaction..

I feel quite bad however I am a realistice person so I don't take it too serious as I know he's already broken up with me plus he's got a new girlfriend after two weeks since he left me. But it took me 3 days to recover from breaking up and I'm still recovering from the fact of his new gf, and I think that's the reason why he deleted me from Facebook. I don't think he'll talk to me agin and I have thought it through, and don't even bother contacting him anymore because he's not worth it. Therefore you have to move on, Facebook is just a tiny thing in your life and don't let him think you're not ok, try to be positive and confident.
I've been in similar situation.. He is my first boyfriend and lucikly we've been together for only 7 months, and I used to think I would spend my life with him. He broke up with me two weekes ago and now he has found a new girlfriend friend. It took me 3 days to recover from breaking-up and I'm still recovering from the fact of his new girlfriend since I knew on last Friday. I couldn't sleep or eat, I breathe hardly and felt sad. However don't let yourself down, try to avoid thinking of him as soon as possible, try to concentrate on other things, like your study, friends, entertaiment and your family. Even we'd been together for a much shorter time than yours, It still takes me two weeks to get over it. Now I have felt better but I still think of him and his girlfriend when I wake up and open my eyes in the morning. So I know how much pain you are bearing, worse than mine.
Don't worry, plase enjoy being single and hanging out with friends, attend social events and meet new people, I'm sure you'll find someone you love and I'm also sure he'll love you just the way you love him, more than your first love.
If you can't take it, well, I'm afraid it could take a long long time for you to get over it. I know the feeling is like killing yourself however TIME is the only way to heal you and you have to get through it and always believe there's one out there for you, still waiting for you to pick him.

Be positive and confident, don't let him think you want him desperately and be strong , keep smiling then you'll find not only him can make you happy , but other person can make you even happier someday. Love comes when you least expect!

I'm believe in true love andI'm still waiting for the perfect one , or I'm still looking for the one :P Don't be sad when it's over, smile because it's happened. I believe once you have already recovered, there's always someone special and I'm sure he'll gve you eveythin you want and never let you go. You deserve the best, have the faith and enjoy your life :)

The first time it happened to me, I was sad. But I understood because he had a girlfriend few months later and I had to let go. He wasn't worth it and I was only with him for a short period of time.

Now with my current ex, he hasn't ever done that to me... well I think he has blocked me one time on messenger but I know he hates losing any of his exes. He blocked me temporarily until he felt ok. I on the other hand, have blocked, deleted him only for it to backfire as well and had unblocked him/readd him because I felt I missed him. He was like, "Whatever," though (that was his reaction about it but he would question why I always did that--- he knew I was mad at something).

But I think he figured as well that if I'm his ex, I pretty much have every right to abandon him and move on- so he usually he won't fight for me. It was only when I did that when we were seeing each other again.

Well..if I still loved the guy then yes ofcourse I'd feel hurt. But the best thing to do for yourself is not do anything, What's done is done, you can't force him to add you back just so you can get the opportunity to make the first move instead of him. Just occupy yourself with something you love to do..gte busy or get a hobby. :) Don't show him that what he does affects you.

i will feel really FURIOUS. which is the reason that our ex-couple are doing thattt. But I will just act that I don't care, so he will get more p*ssed because I'm not bothered by that.