Cried about what I said even though he's moved on to another girl?

This has little to do with you and almost everything to do with him. He feels bad about doing what he thought was the right thing to do. It's called cognitive dissonance. He needs to learn to accept his consequences and learn from his mistakes. He didn't cry because he thought you called him a name, when clearly you didn't. he cried because it's aaaaallllllllllll about him and he can't bear the thought that he's not supremely moral and right on this issue. Don't feed into it. Start to move on, even if you're just pretending to move on. Let him feel the consequence. Hopefully he'll come out the other side stronger and more mature.

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He wants his cake and to eat it too. He's trying to have a connection with you AND with this girl. What his motivation is and how much it means about how he feels for you doesn't really matter in my book. You need to judge what is right for you and you are completely correct. You need to totally break it off with him. He isn't thinking about what is good for you. If he was, he would not be subjecting you to this. Do what is best for you and being around him is not it.

this sucks. well, he feels bad? why? because the other girl and him didn't work well?
if he doesn't love you, cut all contact with him off.
that's the way to do it
i honestly think if he isn't man enough to go up to you face toface and say let's workt his out, it's over. I'm sorry.
i cut off all contact with my ex bf's on fb.
yeah...he feels bad but honestly . you forgot to say 'if you want to work it out, be man enough to talk to me face to face and work this out or jus tlet it go'-
when you two can be less emotional about it, it will work out. I wish you good luck. I'm single and I try to be clear with what I want in a relationship and when both parties are less emotional then you two can talk straight. and tell him you didn't mean to call him a douche, but yeah, people misunderstand. so talk to him if you want to work it out.

I agree with mikess314's comment. Regardless of his reasons for crying, it sounds like your ex has a LOT of maturing to do. I realize how hard it must be though, my ex conveniently started dating someone else right away too. if he's coming back to you now, then he most likely realizes that A) the grass isn't greener or that B) he needs you to make him feel better about what he did. My ex is suddenly saying 'hi' to me in school and wanting to hang around my friends and me at social functions. Sure, sometimes I see him and it still hurts but mostly I know that all he wants is for me to be nice back, be friendly and let his conscience rest easy for the crappy things he did to me. I'm not willing to do that. look out for yourself and I think distancing yourself from your ex is the best move. you need time away to heal completely and move on. don't let familiarity or comfort fool you into going back to someone who doesn't have your best interests at heart.

Let the loser go and find yourself a hero...If he loves you, he will never want to see you hurting.

What he did could be eating at him or maybe ( and I'm leaning more towards this ) he's realizing the grass isn't as green as he thought. Kiddos to you for being honest with him although I know it's hard you had to create some sort of boundaries. This is what he wanted and you gave it to him . . . You have to let him deal with it. I hope you don't think I'm a complete jerk , but you can't care about whether or not he was crying it just puts you in a bad place. Your still hurting you have to nurture your feelings before you can worry about him or anyone else. Maybe he was confused when he shelved your relationship , but that's just it he SHELVED your relationship. I'd let him keep playing that violin without batting an eye. The ball is in your court right now I hope you make the right move . . . And let it be the matter of logic instead of the heart . Good Luck