Me and my husband have been have been split up for a while now about 7 months. When we split up I was pregnant (his baby) The baby was born a week ago and we have been spending a lot of time together, since then. He has been great, helping when he can. Thing is, since we have been spending so much time together, I am feeling like I really want to be back with him.
And the way the he looks at me sometimes, I feel like he wants that too. Problem is, I don't want him back. I felt like I was over him, he's not good for me and I know this. But I still feel love for him. I can't tell him to go away cause he's helping with his son, but at the same time, I can't handle being with him. What do you all think? I need a little help!
Well, you will always have your child together, so you will be seeing him forever. If there is any chance the feelings are still there, I would explore the possibility of getting back together with him. Guys do change; sometimes for the better! Maybe all he needs is a second chance with you! Don't just disregard your feelings.
Thanks! This is good advise, but I don't think he wants to get back together with me. He says I'm not the 'one' for him. So its not possible to explore these feelings. Its the hardest part. - 8 months ago
If you think he's no good for you, just remain friends. If he does help, your son deserves to have a father in his life so it wouldn't be right to tell him he can't come by.
I totally agree with you, but I am in love with him. And I just can't turn that off. He means the world to me, I mean I married him, ya know. I guess I just need to know how to have him around and not have these feeling for him. We have been married for 6 years. He's a great guy, always willing to help out but he broke my heart. - 8 months ago
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Your rite you can't turn it off that's what my ex used to say when were dating talking about her ex lol I think overtime you will get over it there's nothing wrong about having those feelings as long as you know not to act upon them your fine - 8 months ago
Try to get in the moment and when you guys kiss see if you still feel the feeling you felt when you said I do. If you do then tell him that you want to get back together but tell him its for the baby more than anything but make sure you still say that you still love him but at the end of everything. I hope this helps and good luck
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When: 8 months ago
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