Okay, my boyfriend and I went out for almost a month and he was my FIRST kiss. well, we were on the phone for about 3 hours 2 days after we broke up, and he wouldn't tell me why he broke up with me, but then I found out from my friends that he said "i flirted too much. " and so, we were on the phone and it was kind of obvious he still had feelings for me. And he knew I still liked him too. When we got back from spring break, he avoided me and he never even said anything to me or even looked at me in the hallway at school. But then last week we kept making odd eye connections or w/e (kept looking at each other I guess) and every time I would catch his eye he would turn around so fast. And my friend said he said he didn't like me anymore:( and so yeah. How do I get him back?
The worst part is, is that I feel like I have more feelings right now than I did for him while we were going out.
If you want him back, there are 2 things I would try. Both of which require you to be really bold. First, you need to talk to him about the break up, in person. You have a right to hear it from him exactly why he broke up with you. Once you get a good reason from him, promise to change what it is and ask him to take you back. If you don't ask him directly and straightforwardly to take you back, he may not get how badly you want him. Really, you just need to ask him, directly, to take you back, despite the problems. Once this dialog is opened with him, you have more power than you might think. Try it, and the worst that can happen is that he refuses you. But at least you will know why he broke it off
The second idea is a little longer. You need to wait. Yes, wait. Let it go on a little bit longer, the eye-catching and anything else that you can do to him to keep him thinking of you. Inside jokes or anything you can say to him that remind him of the time in which you were dating are perfect for this end. If he can't stop thinking of you, then he is prime. After you are certain that your seeds are replanted in him, ask him if he would be willing to "try it again" good luck
Girl I'm having exactly the same problem. what my friends told me to do is to move on. And now I'm flirting more than ever. and now I'm much much happier. Its better than being so sad and all crying about someone who doesn't have feelings for you anymore. cause they are right. If he wants you back, he would DO something. about the eye-catching thing. It's really normal. But I would not say he still have STRONG feelings for you. You should get a much better guy and make him jealous to see if he wants you again. =]
Unfortunately, your best bet is to let him go. If he was interested in getting back together he would put effort into it. If you really want to get him back, you should just pretend like it doesn't bother you and hope it develops into a friendship. If it is meant to be it will happen with time. Good luck!
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