okay so I did what I was to advised to do which was ignore my ex . if you need to know the story just look at my other question . but yeah so use the ignoring method & it worked like a charm . he is talking to me again and he wants me to come over so he can "cook for me" I think he wants to have sex but my friends are saying don't do it because then it just makes it look like he got what he want or something . so when I go over what should I do how should act . should be do anything or wait awhile ?
If you have sex with him the first night you will set a false pretense for the rest of your relationship that I am assuming you are getting back into. If you want it to last and so does he, take it slow and I mean real slow. I had an ex of mine play the ignore game several times in a row a several years back, I finally caught on and haven't talked to her since. Playing games is sometimes needed but don't abuse the power. If he wants to have sex I would be 90% that it probably won't work out. Just act as if you were hanging out with a friend, don't joke too much, and definitely don't jump into physical activity. In a sense you are technically starting over and the first couple weeks are critical to set the pace for the entire relationship. Take it slow and it will last, move quickly and it will most often than not, end quickly. Best of luck.
I agree. He misses you and probably misses doing all the old activities you shared together. Take it slow! Definitely do not have sex... it's like re-dating him for the first time. A guy will take advantage if you have sex immediately and will probably NOT talk to you for a while until he can have sex again with you. If you take it slow as 'friends' who still love each other without the sex part, I think he will appreciate you more as you are rather than the sex you had in your relationship. - A month ago
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Thanks I'm gonna take your advice ; thanks for the advice . :) - A month ago
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Hope it works or worked for you. I can say that I speak from tragic experience, ha ha. - 27 days ago
Definitely talk it slow. If you have sex with him on the first night, he will probably start to see you as just "friends with benefits" and will only want to hang out when he just wants sex.
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