My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago after 3 years together. We are in a long distance relationship because he's in the military and we're growing apart. He ignored me, then broke up with me and told me that he doesn't want to talk, but that he's still in love with me. (? ) Anyway, he texted me after two weeks I guess to give me an update on what he was doing (not sure why) and I did not answer because I didn't have anything to say. My birthday is this week, if he does call or text, should I answer to show I appreciate the call or ignore to prove a point?
I think you should answer his call or text because you two aren't going out but still its a nice thing that he's probably calling to wish you happy birthday. Now, if he starts talking about your relationship, then just listen and tell him how you feel about you two breaking up. Be honest with him.
Toughie! I went through the same thing with my military man. Even though he says he doesn't want to talk, ask him if you can have one final conversation for closure. Find out the whys and whats and that he really does still love you. If it's mutual, maybe suggest trying to be friends again, and maybe work things out? Best of luck to you I hope it works out!
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Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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