Okay so my boyfriend has broke up with me he says its because he can't trust me well I gave him no reason not to.But anyways he had told me this story about how he was married to this girl Darci and he went away to Iraq for a year so basically long story short she cheated with 12 guys he worked with sold the brand new car he bought her and his truck everything in the house and had an abortion with his kid.So yeah I kinda understand the trust issues well I believe like anything anyone tells me so I believed him he was not mad at all at her! So my aunt was telling me she thought something was up with this story so I kinda went on some sites to find out if they were really married because they lived in a diff place so I had no clue who this girl was.Well I find out they were married ...,and I find out he had been married before her too! Well the Mary girl the first one I find the divorce on her it was done on 6/29/2005 he married Darci on 7/1/2005 .k so if that's not enough I can't find the divorce on darci? it says 2 marriages one divorce so I thought since he never mentioned the Mary girl it was a mistake but it said they were married for about about 2 years we had even had the convo about the longest relationships he never mentioned her so I kinda knew his yahoo id so I got on it because I wanted to contact these girls and see what happened if he was lying well I really believed the Mary was a mistake till I saw her and Darci on his contact list!So he says I lie to him but ummmm I haven't and he kinda lied about being married and I can't find anything saying the Darci girl is divorced wtf am I in the wrong or should I be asking him for some answers and should I e mail these girls and see if he's like pshycho or something?Thanks to whoever reads this I need all the advice you can give!
How could he not mention being married twice? its a big thing in my book anyways! You say you can't find the 2nd divorce yeah? well then that means he is still married to her! He is being insecure...its not like you cheated on him or did what ever his ex did to him...your not her! he should know that. Ask him straight out what's the real reason he wants to break up,the trust thing isn't a reason. And your not in the wrong..get to the bottom of this marriage thing...Looks like he is hiding something and you deserve to know..you have his yahoo password and all..use it,get in touch with his ex's and find out what's going on hun
You really need to leave this guy alone. I believe he can trust you, its himself he is trying to cover. You know...When someone lies, that liar is always to first to blame the other person for lieing, stealing or cheating to cover their own tracks. I believe he is still married, but if you want to investigate this further, there are several websites, one is called people search. I used that once on a old girlfriend of mine. She was my first love. Was I ever glad I did it. I found out so much information on her, I realized she was not interested in me, only what I could do for her. Move on, find someone that you can trust and fall in love with before you start to feel that all men cannot be trusted.
I think you've been fed a pack of lies by the sound of it, he seems to be a bit of a player and probably got in too deep with you, if he can't be honest with you about his past then you shouldn't waste your time on him, you deserve better than that. If you do contact his ex? Wives you may not like the answer, your probably best moving on with your life and finding somebody who appreciates you and doesn't lie, you can hold your head up high and know that you didn't do anything wrong even if he thinks you have!
First of all, read what you wrote, you're righting like a 5 year old and making very little sense. Grammar is important when writing and not texting style on a phone.
secondly, why are you going through his history? How long were you together? How old are you? and him? maybe if you can answer these then you'll understand what was or even the problem is!
really girl. be glad he dumped you then, he has too much excess baggage. And no. You should not contact those girls. No need to bring drama to them and to yourself. He is not a part of your life anymore, so his craziness and insecurities are not your problem anymore. Try and move on from that unstable lying jerk.
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