My ex and I broke up months ago because I showed my body to another guy on web cam it was the worst mistake of my life. I love him and I don't understand why I did it except for feeling neglected because he spent a lot of time on the computer and ignored me when he was on it. He was my best friend for 3 years before and now he wants nothing to do with me. I'm not allowed talk to him , he has called me a couple of times but he doesn't want to hear how sorry i am. I still have feelings for him and I'm finding it hard to get through each day. I guess I deserve it well he thinks so at least but this punishment he is putting on me of "living with the consequences" is destroying me and I have been hurt as much as I can. So what am I suppose to do now keep trying or just give up. I've been waiting for months for him to decide to be my friend again. I think he has moved on , and sleeping with someone else now. But I haven't cos I just feel really wrong doing it. He seems happy he just wants to keep hurting me. He shows little bits of emotion of caring then runs away and says he wants nothing to do with me. So what now?
Time to move on. You made a silly mistake (you are not alone - trust me) and he has made his mind up. The extent of his reaction suggests that he may have been looking for an excuse to end it and he is hanging everything on this one thing. He also seems quite a bully to make you continually suffer for such a long time while he moves on and enjoys life.
Stand up tall, accept that you've done all you can and that you tried to apologize and make peace. He wasn't reasonable in accepting that apology, so now you can get on with your life and find happiness elsewhere. Don't beat yourself up over this. One mistake shouldn't stop you having a good time. Take the lesson on the chin and get back out there!
That sucks, girl. I know that you are really sorry and you regret it, but he's a man. Men are pretty intense when it comes to girls that they care about. After that happened all he probably can do is picture you doing that over and over in his head (this is how men are). Even if you get back together, there is no trust there; so it would only be a matter of time before you guys had a horrible blow up. As for being his friend; he should (and he might) lighten up about that. Over time, he will begin to forgive and respect you again. If he doesn't, then you have to try and move on. I'd say to give him another month or so to come around (as a friend); by that time you need to start resolving your loss.
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
I love clothes that are sexy, chic, and comfortable. It all depends on where we're going, but whatever the occasion, place, or outfit may be, I always make sure to accent my outfit with enough accessories to dazzle, but not too much to wear it looks gaudy.I wear shoes that make me taller, either stiletto boots or strappy sandals and also a lot of pink and black because those are most flattering.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
My hair is naturally curly/wavy, so I'll either wear it like that or I'll straighten it. It goes down to the middle of my back so I like to play with a lot of different styles. And as for makeup, I go through a lot to make it look natural. When I go out at night though, I'll create a dramatic look with a little extra eyeliner and some lipstick, because I always wear gloss during the day.
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