I have a friend who very recently broke up with his girlfriend and he is totally hurt by this and he wants to sleep with me I know this, but I just have a hard time doing that knowing he is still in love with her. We have known each other for a while and been good friends.
We talk about everything. Including his break up but how soon is too soon to move on? And when is it ok to tell him I actually have feelings for him!? ( and have for a while). I'm so at a loss with this.
BE CAREFUL! I had been in a two year relationship with someone and eventually had to break up with her because it was neither healthy for her or I. What happened, even though I felt it was for the best, is I started feeling lonely for all the attention that I wasn't getting that I was used to. I started leaning on my friends. . . And when one of those friends, which happened to be a girl, was nice to me. . . I started feeling attracted to her. It wasn't because I liked her. . . But because she was there. . . And I was lonely. Give him time by himself and let him re-establish his own strength first. Then. . . When his head is clear, and he can make it alone. . . You can start to get closer. For now, you should probably maintain your resolve in just being his friend
Everybody is different on how much time they need to get over someone depending on the relationship they had with that previous person. I am sort of sitting in the situation where the relationship with my boyfriend just ended and I still love him but my best friend, who is a guy I have known for a long time, has always had feelings for me and I've had feelings for him too.
We've talked about dating each other in the past and we shared everything with each other. We haven't got to the point of starting a relationship yet because it's always worked out to the point where one would be in a relationship and the other not and vice versa.
We're stuck on the 'what to do next?' But what I can tell you in my opinion, is to give him time, be his friend like you've always been, be supportive but don't get involved on a physical level because if he still has feeling for her, chances are his feelings for you may be very mixed up. You'll know when the time is right and when he's fully moved on from his girlfriend, then tell him how you feel. Good luck.
Well you are fighting an uphill battle here girl! If you really want an opportunity to have a real relationship with him you should continue to support him and listen, but hold up on the sex for a while (maybe a couple months). Before you do get intimate with him, make sure he knows how you feel.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would pick my date up and first get a bight to eat maybe at a hibachi maybe some sushi if that was her choice, bond a little over dinner. at this point we are learning each others quick hang ups and first played personality traits. After dinner and a glass of wine, go to a club and have some drinks maybe dance sit back down for more chit chat learning each others passions and expectations...
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
If it went well, we could talk about meeting again for another date.
If it went really well, we would have become a little bit intimate (not too far)
If it went really really well, she would have learned about my penis piercing :)
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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