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Boyfriend cheated !!! what should I do?

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shortyshort (Age:Under 18)     When: 22 days ago
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i was reading this thing about how guys NEED sex or whatever...

me and him (my soon-to-be-ex) have been together for 6 months now

. so like I kinda went into his MySpace messages and found out that he was cheating on me...

he did this late September-early October


is it partially my fault? (be honest)

should I forgive him or should we go our separate ways?

please help.. I'm so devastated


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JBrooks
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JBrooks      When: 22 days ago
Dump him. I know it sucks to be cheated on. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. But you can do much better. If a guy says he needs sex, he isn't someone you should want to be with anyway. It is absolutely not your fault and don't ever EVER think that it is.
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Question Asker Wat if he ask me how I know? I kno the proof is in pudding but I feel bad for bein like a stalker chick - 22 days ago
Answerer It doesn't matter how you know, but you know. You can't just stay with someone knowing that they cheat on you, even if you went through some unethical means to find out. Plus, it's not like your snooping made him cheat. Like I said, you can do better. - 22 days ago

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UnknownFox      When: 22 days ago
Dump his sorry tail. Sex is NOT a need for guys. I'm 20 and never had sex (by choice). If he truly loved and cared about you like a good boyfriend should he would have waited and done it with you when you were good and ready. Do not blame yourself for your boyfriends stupidity.
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Question Asker What if he asks how I know? I don't wana tell him how I found out - 22 days ago
Answerer I do agree with Jbrooks, it doesn't matter how you know, the fact is, you do. You can say you know and that's all he needs to know. - 22 days ago
 

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enlightenment
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enlightenment      When: 22 days ago
why would it be your fault? Don't know any details but my guess is no. That is something that you have to look deep down inside and answer for yourself if you are ever goign to be able to forgive him. I would say ditch him, but I know nothing of the details.
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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 22 days ago
no it isn't yoru fault. if he wanted sex, he should have talked to you about it
he's in the wrong because he didn't even say 'hey babe, I think we need more action in our relationship' , he just went and f***ed some other girl
so no if I was in your situation, it's his own fault
i'm sorry
i've been through this
one guy cheated on me
never went back to him
to this day, I am grateful I'm not going to end up with someone like him
k take care
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Anonymous User      When: 22 days ago
Break up with him now. Tell him you are breaking up with him because you do not think he is the right person for you. If he asks why not, then go ahead and tell him plain and simple, "I am looking for a boyfriend who doesn't cheat." He may try to say, "how do you know?" or even deny it...just say "I know, that's all." "I'm sorry this won't work out." "Goodbye."
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